Should I talk to her?

[Nameless]

My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago now and it was for the reason that she said she wasn't ready for a committed relationship yet but she said she still wanted to remain friends. Since then we've more or less had no contact apart from the occasional hello.

The annoying thing is she's had a couple of sleepovers recently and at least twice in 3 of the sleepovers her friends have used various ways to contact me and just generally annoy me which frustrates me because I've been finding it hard to get over her as it is but it just makes it worse with them doing that. They were texting me, calling me on FaceTime and just laughing and being immature but not once in any of them did my ex show her face.

Last week she deleted me off Facebook and I see no reason why...I hadn't posted anything about her or anything nor had i been that active on it but she still deleted me...i asked her why and she had no explanation and just added me back. Two days later she deletes me again but keeps my best mate who she has never met or talked to before added...

All this stays on my conscience and makes me think have I done something wrong that made her delete me even though she said she still wants to be friends?

And the fact when she has sleepovers her friends keep contacting me.. could that mean she is playing games and uses her friends to get in contact so it doesn't look as she herself is?

This all confuses me and she broke up with my via a Facebook message while I was on holiday and because she lives about 45 minutes away I haven't actually been able to get proper closure and I'm not sure if she's actually still interested or just doing it to annoy me?

So I'm wondering whether I should call her and just talk everything through and get answers to all my questions or just leave her be and just keep her deleted.

Sorry for the massive post I mainly wanted to get this out of me, but any comments/advice would be greatly appreciated, Cheers Matt.

[Leprachaun]

I think you should call her to clear things up. I can understand that it maybe difficult or awkward but ifyou feel ok to do it then thats probably the best thing to do.

[Arantor]

Well, I see only two options.
1) Call her, try to clear things up. If it doesnt work, be prepared to move on and if it does then great.
2) Just stop communicating with her all together. I know thats one of the hardest things to ask a guy to do, but in my experience its the only way to get over someone you love.

Best of luck

[HaydenM]

I would say to either phone her up, or to meet her face to face if its possible. And then just talk about what has happened and get everything out there. What is the worst that could happen (i hate the phrase as well but if you are already broken up, she cant do much else can she?)