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ThatScience
October 9th, 2011, 08:00 AM
I'm straight... Mostly.
I'm bi-curious... Probably.
I'm gay... Allegedly.

Caught up in names, labels and appearances. It's debilitating. I recently liberated myself from this burden by coming to the conclusion that I dont necessarily need to announce any sexuality to anyone, not even myself!
It's refreshing. I figured that I have the rest of my life to be a tick in a box and a signature on the dotted line. Right now, I think that the best thing I can do for myself is leave my sexuality undefined.

What do you think?
Did you go through a similar phase in your development?

acurasrock
October 9th, 2011, 08:22 AM
Yeah man, I dont like labels either. You are who you are, and that means you can like or date people based on their individuality, not their sex. So being undefined can be cool, but bi-sexual, if you did use a label.

blackpo
October 9th, 2011, 04:08 PM
i think the names were started to seperate everyone trying in an essence to make everyone other than str8 lesser but undefined to me is basically bi( and everyone else that doesnt claim they are bi are crazy because they have at least once thought about the same sex or the opposite sex)

logan fields
October 9th, 2011, 05:58 PM
i think you are very smart and that makes a lot of sense to me. thumbs up dude