Is it wrong....that we did this?

[amor2429]

I'm feeling a little bad...
I had a friend sleep over last night, and we spent quite a few hours basically beating each other up. Throwing balls at each other, tickling, hitting, poking, scratching, biting, hi fiving as had as we could, putting hands in boiling water....
We also watched lots of really triggering horror movies...

We're both hurting ALL over. Like aching, i really can't move because everything hurts so much. We've got bruises and scratches.

Would that count as self harm? I kinda felt like we...hurt each other just to hurt ourselves....
She tried to scratch herself but i wouldn't let her, i made her sit with her arms in the air... xD
I feel like...im encouraging self harm...I feel bad...:(

[Ambrosia]

Well, why did you choose to do this? It's a bit odd, for you two to do that. Throwing balls, tickling, piking, all of that stuff is okay until you start saying you were putting your hands into boiling water and so on.

Do you both engage in self-harm? Or is it just her? Did you two do this for fun, or was it a release? It depends on those.

[StoppingTime]

I am going to be completely honest, this is a little weird. What brought this about? Did you just start by playing around? Have either of you self harmed before this?


This does technically count as self harm. It is hurting yourself with a non-suicidal purpose. That is the literal definition.
Don't beat yourself up about it though. Maybe you should try talking to her about what happened, and why.
However, I would suggest that you do not do this again, as it may lead to worse things.

Good Luck!

[amor2429]

Well, why did you choose to do this? It's a bit odd, for you two to do that. Throwing balls, tickling, piking, all of that stuff is okay until you start saying you were putting your hands into boiling water and so on.

Do you both engage in self-harm? Or is it just her? Did you two do this for fun, or was it a release? It depends on those.
It seemed like fun...We did those things until it hurt heaps... So? hmmm

We both cut...i'm really addicted but i dont want her to do it... im not sure why we did it it was just fun...to hurt?

I am going to be completely honest, this is a little weird. What brought this about? Did you just start by playing around? Have either of you self harmed before this?


This does technically count as self harm. It is hurting yourself with a non-suicidal purpose. That is the literal definition.
Don't beat yourself up about it though. Maybe you should try talking to her about what happened, and why.
However, I would suggest that you do not do this again, as it may lead to worse things.

Good Luck!

We were watching triggering movies... i guess maybe...Hmmm
I'll try...im just confused...maybe we were just doing it for fun...im not sure... :(
we both cut...i want her to stop....