he's not ready like me?

[MyRedHeadWorld]

Im kinda seeing someone, but the only problem is he's never actully had a girlfriend, or kissed someone. we've only just started going out, its not a proper relationship yet, but when it starts to get more serious, what should I do? cause he doesnt know what to do really and Ive been in a few before, and Im scared to rush him :S any suggestions?:wub:

[briannafrmhell]

Respect his inexperience. If you really like him you'll be patient. But don't let him take forever. Explain to him what you will eventually want and expect. If you find he's unable to give that to you, reassess.

[Dimitri]

And this is coming from a male prespective, most of us need bashed over the ehad with a METAPHORICAL 2x4 because we do not read minds. SO let him know, it will not hurt his feelings but let him know that as of right now you are not in any rush to get this into a serious realtionship because that might push him away.

[LuckyLuke]

If my ex had asked someone this question, we'd still be together.

Guys, as Robert had said, need a bit of help because we don't know what the hell you want and we don't want to push you or make you uncomfortable. TELL HIM. Communication. Let him know when you want "something".

[mxiii]

take it slow. follow his pace. talk to him if you have any disatisfaction.

[MyRedHeadWorld]

thanks everyone, actully helped alot :)x