Maybe silly questions but maybe good questions?

[Compaq1]

Hello every1.

I am new here, I am so happy to find a place where I can post my thoughts on sexuality etc :)

I have a few questions,

and I am very thankful to any1 who can answer me them :)

here it is:

people, I am scared of having sex beacuse I'm afraid I don't know enough about sexual transmited deasease etc.

I have read warnings about sex and I don't know what to think anymore.

I have haid sex just 1 time with 1 girl who was a virgin I think, beacuse she seemed really new at having sex.

she gave me a blowjob also.

questions -

how can I know when is it ok to recieve a blowjob from a girl? What risks am I taking ?

Is it ok to lick her pussy etc and give her pleasure with my tongue etc and what risks am I taking?

am I completely safe if I have sex with a virgin girl or..??

and can some1 plz tell how to enjoy sex and be safe.


What do you people do?


Thanks so much people!!!:)

[iamthatkidd]

For me, I want to have vag sex when I am older and I wish I can help answer your questions, but I feel the same way. I want to have oral sex so badly, but I don't want to take any risks because I don't want to catch any STD

[Dimitri]

Put it this way, STD's, now called STI's can be stread anytime you come in contact with any opening of the body, be it lips, rectum, vagina. You could ask your partner if they have been with anyone with STI's.

If you chose to have unprotected sex with some you risk contracting anything that they might have contracted from one of their partners. The best thing to do is just ask or just not do it at all.....it says on condom packages "Does not prtect against STD's"

If you have any questions about how certian diseases are contracted feel free to ask a moderator of visit the VT Genral Hospital part of the forum here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=27).

[maxii]

I wouldnt be worryed about the b/j unless u see that she has a sore or some thing around or in her mouth... but at eatting her out just check what it looks like in the light before you hit it in the dark.. thats as much as I would know

[Trinity_15]

just Google lists of stds and it will tell you about them. how you get then etc. Google risks of types of sex. it will tell you the risks and problems.

or you can ask your school counsellor for a info pack about it. they will keep it private.

[Compaq1]

tnx all!

I will research more.

tnx!

[mredgar]

your welcome lol

[youwonthegame]

I'd just like to point out, if she's a virgin and you're a virgin/have only ever had sex/received a bj from a virgin, you aren't going to contract an STI. Being a virgin means you've never had sex, so how in the world would you have an STI? I think the "Sexually Transmitted" portion of the name speaks for itself, but people generally overlook that. xD