Am I Wrong?

[Fourth Dimension]

okay some of this may sound really stupid and i think it is one of my very best friends and i got into a huge fight tonight over something incredibly stupid and idk what i should have done i did what i though was best heres what happened i was sapose to hang out with her tonight it was her last night in town till prolly next weekend she moved over the summer so she comes almost every weekend and shes been in town all week and ive been with her all week anyway another friend was really upset and needed someone to talk to and i told her that i would hang with her for a bit and i had tried sending the friend whos mad at me a message she didnt get it so as im on my way out my angry friend is there to come get me she haddnt gotten the message so i explained what was going on she got mad and stormed off and i went on my way and me and the other friend went to do what we were going to do which got cut short because another friend of ours called us all drugged up so we went to help her and my angry friend drove past and stopped and tried to help her too and was being a total bitch to me saying how i had ditched her and was a piece of shit basically and when we finally got the drugged up friend the help she needed i just wanted to go home and my angry friend was pissed cuz i wouldnt go with her she said for me not to bother messaging her anymore so i was like yeah whatever if you wanna throw away 14 years of friendship go for it so basically what im asking was i wrong for not going with her and going home i mean i didnt wanna go with her and our other friends if he was gunna be a bitch to me all night so was i wrong to just walk away and go home?

[Skeptical Bear]

It sounds like you had a lot to deal with at the same time. I've been through this before and the other person never understands. You were both angry and the last thing you guys wanted to do was be with each other. You and your friend just need to cool off a bit and when it seems fine, talk to her and explain what was going through your mind and let her speak too. Show her that you sent the message. If I were in your position, I would've tried to talk to her and listen to her problems but I can understand why you left home. It wasn't wrong or right in my opinion if you understand. Hope this helps. :)

[Giles]

From that alone it seems like you did the right thing. You had two friends that genuinely needed your help and support, so you were with them instead of being with the other friend that you could presumably see in a weeks time. She'll probably calm down by the next time you talk to her, if not just tell her to get over it because she's definitely overreacting.

[Shenron]

I think you did the right thing. You avoided further confrontation by leaving. Had you gone with her, you could have gotten into a much bigger argument. It is best to let things simmer down a bit sometimes. Give her a few days and then try and talk to her. If she is still being stubborn then just tell you are sorry. Hopefully all will go well.

Let me know if I can be of any further help.

[Fourth Dimension]

sorry i havnt updated on this yet everything is fine now she and i talked it out