Please Help I Think Im Gay

[kmjaemo]

Helllo... this is my first post here, and the topic is the reason why i joined this forum.

I think Im gay! help me please

I think im gay because i am, currently, a seventh grader, but I never got horny when I saw porn or a naked girl. However, I get horny when I see guys, and I only masturbate thinking about guys. I once dreamt about kissing a girl, but that was only once. Help me, will I love girls later, or is this a sign of gayness? I usually don't think about HAVING sex with guys when I masturbate, but it's not like I ever imagined having sex with a girl and getting horny due to that. please help me, please, im desperate, i feel like suiciding

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Do not suicide! You may be be gay, and from what you have said I think you are, but that is not something you should kill yourself over! If you are worried how people will react, and you don't want to tell them, don't! It's worked for me ever since I figured out that I was bi.

[kmjaemo]

please

i cant be gay

i really dont think i am, i never thought of having sex with a guy
is it possible that i might turn out straight, or even a bi?

[Zazu]

Don't commit suicide! People care for you, and don't panic so much. You need to realise you are only young, trust me, I'd say about 80% of people go through this at this kind of age, it's just being 'curious' in a way, you'll just have so many hormones flowing around your body your emotions might be a bit messed up, just don't panic! Wait a bit and you might develop into your true sexuality, but even if you are gay there is nothing wrong with it.

If you still have questions you can talk to any one here on VT, or pm someone, I'm quite happy to talk if you need to.

[kmjaemo]

please
well
i think i might not be gay
and i hope i am not gay
cuz
ive never really enjoyed the fact of having SEX with men
and
I always like girls, despite the fact that it doesnt get me horny
but some guys like really attract me
but i still like girls, although I never get horny cuz of them
and when I think about having sex with guys, I sort of gget disgusted
but when i think about having sex with females.. well... i dont get horny, but I dont get disgusted at that

is it possible that i might not be gay, and time will tell the answer? Is this just a phase before I develop my true sexuality of straightness?

[Iron]

well, from my knowledge, if you're still going through puberty there can be sharp moments of fantasies of thinking ofguys more than girls, eventually as you get older and if you continue to tell yourself you like girls and such, it should go away

[Zazu]

please
well
i think i might not be gay
and i hope i am not gay
cuz
ive never really enjoyed the fact of having SEX with men
and
I always like girls, despite the fact that it doesnt get me horny
but some guys like really attract me
but i still like girls, although I never get horny cuz of them
and when I think about having sex with guys, I sort of gget disgusted
but when i think about having sex with females.. well... i dont get horny, but I dont get disgusted at that

is it possible that i might not be gay, and time will tell the answer? Is this just a phase before I develop my true sexuality of straightness?

Just wait! Time will tell.....

[theonetheycallbob]

Your only gay if you want to be gay. So you dont wanna be gay your not. It's just a phase you'll be through it soon

[Everglow]

It seems like sexuality is a very big deal to you kmjaemo, and I'll be honest...sexuality is a big deal. It's what defines us as sexual beings..and I'll be honest, it's what a lot of people criticize and hate if one's sexual orientation is not in accordance with the social norm. I know exactly what you are feeling. For the longest time I used to think that I was gay and I was afraid of it..and myself. When I was 14, I tried to hide my sexuality issues, so I started hangin out with girls...to seem normal. I knew I had a sexual preference to boys, but I started to have the same feelings for girls too. That's when I figured out that I am bi. Honestly, I was..and sort of still am ashamed of my sexuality...mainly because I live in an ultra homo-hating environment. I even tried to kill myself..more than once for being bi....Sexuality can be so cruel sometimes, but I guess you don't have to let it dominate you. It can make your life a living hell..as in the case of mine, but it can also be beautiful and make you feel overpowering rapture for a significant other....as mine has done for me too. If you ever want to talk about sexuality and it's whirlwind of seemingly insurmountable problems, or just in general, you can PM me any time. I will answer back.

[MoveAlong]

Your only gay if you want to be gay.

This has NOT been proven as fact!!


Don't kill yourself over being gay...it's not that bad, even if you turn out to be.

It's hard to tell whether you're gay or not. If you love girls, or are attracted to them in any way, not just erections or boners, then you're most likely straight or bi! :yes: If you're attracted to guys in any way, love them, then you must be gay or bi.
You just said you don't feel having sex with a guy is appealing. Do you think about having sex with girls?? It's really hard to say, but it doesn't matter...and just think of this:

IT"S BETTER TO KEEP A SECRET THAN TO KILL YOURSELF OVER IT!
Even if you're gay, it's nothing to stress over, you can keep it a secret. You can also post around VT (which has alot of gay members who can talk to you about it) and PM some people, like myself, I'm gay. The point is dude, you shouldn't stress over this and you should talk to people, and relax.

Puberty does wierd things to your brain 0.o it's just meaningless shit that everyone has to deal with to find out who they're gonna be in adulthood. :D

[Antares]

okay JUST CALM DOWN AND DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDEmost likely you are just curious. when you are alot older like 17 and still feel like this then you ma be gay but for now consider yourself curious. i am curious also. there are other people on here that kind of feel the same way (w/o the suicide)

[MikeHunt]

dude, ur in seventh grade, everyone goes through stages, u cud be bi. but being gay isnt bad or anything, its normal

[Dom]

hey chill. you need to relax!!! i know what ur going through.... right now im in the 8th grade and i am the same way. i get horny thinking about guys but i had a girlfriend. I still love her but guys make me horny. like i said though im in the 8th grade, in 14!!! i just started puberty like a month ago and these thoughts never even entered my mind. Im pretty sure that i will end up bi or staright but let time tell. Right now you need to find a good video game and forget about the world. Ok?! I used to worry about being gay but i've come to terms that if i'm gay i'm gay and my friends, well i talked to them about it and they said that they would never ever care. My dad i dont think is the same way but later in life you will have to stop caring what others think of you so if he doesn't like me becaue i become gay then he lost his son and he will come to reason that i am gay. right now i have moved on and regretably are thinking about getting drunk or doing weed.... but i rather not do drugs..... the drinking well alot of my friends go over to my other friends house and get drunk alot. i've had alot of alcohol and my parents were there to make sure i wasnt doing drugs. however i've never been drunk or well nvm that doesnt matter, what does matter is that from what i've read i sound like a person in the EXACT same place as you so if you need to talk to me personally go ahead!!

[MrKaramel]

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[MrKaramel]

I go through this same thing sometimes.I like girls, but I get turned on more by guys,I dont know if its signs of me being Bi or curiosity, I hope its just curiosity.

So dont worry, it may just be curiosity, only you can control your sexuality

[ricky]

Helllo... this is my first post here, and the topic is the reason why i joined this forum.

I think Im gay! help me please

I think im gay because i am, currently, a seventh grader, but I never got horny when I saw porn or a naked girl. However, I get horny when I see guys, and I only masturbate thinking about guys. I once dreamt about kissing a girl, but that was only once. Help me, will I love girls later, or is this a sign of gayness? I usually don't think about HAVING sex with guys when I masturbate, but it's not like I ever imagined having sex with a girl and getting horny due to that. please help me, please, im desperate, i feel like suiciding

you are not gay. being gay is not just having sex with a guy, its being able to have a loving relationship with somone of the same sex. you are in the 7th grade, you are waaaaaaaaay to young to decide what your sexuality is. dont worry about it, and dont kill yourself, this isnt worth it. :)

[sunsings]

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[mobile]

Dont worry dude and dont commit suicide!

People often asume that if they even think about another mans penis then they must be gay! But...why dont we think the same when we think about a womens tits or having sex with one? What Im trying to say is just because you have thought about guys doesnt meen you are gay. Look through this forum- you will be suprised how many guys say they have experimented with other guys in the past but they are straight.

Just wait and find out!