whats happend to my brother?

[beebs]

so im worried about one of my brothers. hes 17 so he doesnt live with me anymore. he's not talking to his girlfriend, or me, hes deleted his facebook and i have no way to contact him. my brother is a very out going person, hes NOT like this ever, he's only like this when he has a problem, but i cant help, because nobody can get in contact with him.

i think something really bad must of happend, he deleted his facebook, and on there was the only photos we had, of our family holiday, he knows how much they mean to me.

what am i ment to do?

[joeyjorulz]

i think he is going thru depression

[The_Narwhal]

Id try and talk to your parents, see if they can contact him. It seems like he must be going through some depression at the moment.

[beebs]

thanks guys, he got back in contact last night, he said hes okay, but im gunna vist him soon, and make sure...

[Jordan1234]

Try to contact with his friends to give u information about him

[Kujiro]

The best you can do is find out if hes ok, but i would advise against probing into his problems.

When guys get trapped in problems, they would enter their cave and mull over their problems.
Its a term where they would spend so much time thinking of their problems that they are unwilling to let others into their zone, not even their closest friends.

Eventually when they have come to terms with these problems, they would eventually come out of this cave.
Only on rare occasions, where guys would seek help from such problems, even by doing so would not change much of their decisions.

Hence, the only thing you can do is find out if hes well, as in physically well, but other than that, leave his thinking to himself.

As jordan has mentioned, asking his friends and such about it would be a good option.

Good luck
*smile*

[PureReality]

so im worried about one of my brothers. hes 17 so he doesnt live with me anymore. he's not talking to his girlfriend, or me, hes deleted his facebook and i have no way to contact him. my brother is a very out going person, hes NOT like this ever, he's only like this when he has a problem, but i cant help, because nobody can get in contact with him.

i think something really bad must of happend, he deleted his facebook, and on there was the only photos we had, of our family holiday, he knows how much they mean to me.

what am i ment to do?

Does he not have a phone? Yeah, I would talk to your parents about it and other relatives; that does seem really out of character. Is he in college right now? The college life is really stressful and challenging.

[beebs]

Yeah hes in collage, i saw him today walking home from school, he seems okay, hes still refusing to come visit me though

[Jupiter]

Is he talking to your parents?

[PureReality]

Yeah hes in collage, i saw him today walking home from school, he seems okay, hes still refusing to come visit me though

College is really, really challenging and stressful. I wouldn't take it personally. My brother is going to college too, and he doesn't even have a social life. He is so stressed but it takes determination. I would just wait a couple weeks, and even suggest just for him to relax. Don't overreact to it. But, yeah, ask your parents what's up. :yes:

[Jupiter]

yeah, just like what logan said, my brother is having trouble in college right now. he just needs to be alone for a while.

[beebs]

collage is nothing new to him, its his second year? And no hes not speaking to my parents

[PureReality]

collage is nothing new to him, its his second year? And no hes not speaking to my parents

I'm sure college only gets more challenging - it's a busy and hectic lifestyle to say the least. He is probably tied up in school work & personal issues. :confused:

[cpr97]

thanks guys, he got back in contact last night, he said hes okay, but im gunna vist him soon, and make sure...

maybe when you visit him let him know how worryed you were when you couldnt contact him maybe you n him can get a way to always have a emergency way to get in touch with eachother like video mesangers, cell phones or a person or even email
my brother is 17 also n though we dont get along all the time n he still lives here we still have our own ways to get in touch with eachother if we ever need to