seperation anxiety

[ackmedsgirl666]

my bf claims hes going away to L.A in 4 weeks for a 3 week spree. he says hes gonna try and get famous and make a few thousand bucks(what r the chances of that) i dont want him to go at all.. im scared he might not come back and im pregnant and need him here to help me out..... hes being stupid if he thinks hes gonna come home rich. he has no talent whatsoever. im tryna convince him not to go... how do put it out there and make it clear to him i need him here and dont want him to go... what do i do!

[Sage]

In all honesty, I think you've just made a poor decision in who to be with.

[Amaryllis]

Sweetheart, hate to break it to you but there's a chance he might be leaving you with his baby.

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im scared he might not come back and im pregnant and need him here to help me out.....

...you're a guy.

[StoppingTime]

...you're a guy.

I cant agree more. Is there something we are missing?

[Genghis Khan]

im scared he might not come back and im pregnant and need him here to help me out.....

Gender: Male.

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[Donkey]

I cant agree more. Is there something we are missing?
Yes. The OP is trans I believe. We needn't fill up the thread with posts like the above.

[ackmedsgirl666]

yes thanks i am trans thanks donkey for that
but i am dating a male but i am pregnant which is why i am holding off on any surguries or chnges physically to my body till after the child is born..
all i am asking for is advise not judgemment

[Amaryllis]

Okay, sweetheart, you need to talk to your bf about this. I'm not saying it's definite but there's a chance he may be leaving you with your child. Reason with him. How does he plan to get all that money? He's delusional if he thinks he can do that in 3 weeks. What about your baby? You need to talk to him. If he's really fixed on it, I suggest you follow him. If you can't possibly do that, well, you could take the risk and keep your child or... Not.

Try to reason with him, don't get too emotional.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i am just so confused... and hes stressing me out
his ex bf got into contact with him the other day and ever since he has been so depressed. i feel so bad for him :(
im thinking he is gonna leave me for his ex and if that happens i will just die. i want him to be happy but really is there any other way ?

[Amaryllis]

i am just so confused... and hes stressing me out
his ex bf got into contact with him the other day and ever since he has been so depressed. i feel so bad for him :(
im thinking he is gonna leave me for his ex and if that happens i will just die. i want him to be happy but really is there any other way ?

What you really have to worry about right now is your baby. If he were to leave you for his ex, that's a HUGE burden on your shoulders. Having a baby is life changing? How far in are you in your pregnancy?

Put yourself and the baby before him, sweetie. You and your baby are the biggest priorities here.

[ackmedsgirl666]

im not sure how far along i am yet..... but im getting along... slowly but surely

[Amaryllis]

im not sure how far along i am yet..... but im getting along... slowly but surely

I meant how many weeks or months pregnant are you. Do you know?

[ImCoolBeans]

In all honesty, I think you've just made a poor decision in who to be with.

Take this into consideration, please. I don't want you to become miserable and stuck in a bad situation.

[StoppingTime]

yes thanks i am trans thanks donkey for that
but i am dating a male but i am pregnant which is why i am holding off on any surguries or chnges physically to my body till after the child is born..
all i am asking for is advise not judgemment

Didn't mean to insult you, I just don't pay attention :whoops: I have nothing against you :)

Once again, sorry.