Top/bottom

[fri13guy]

So... I've been dating this guy (I'm a guy also) for the last.. Oh 16 days. During this time I've given him about... 4 Bj's and we make out alot. Here's the issue that I'm having... He keeps like BEGGING me to let him fuck me, and I do NOT want that... But neither does he (me fucking him). So you could say we're both "tops".

Now: (the reason this is in the sexualiaty posting place) CAN there be gay relationships where BOTH people in the relationship are tops, but are fully satisfied? Or... Does there really have to be a top and a bottom to make it work like... "properly"? Is this an issue gay (male) couples face?

[Hajara22]

unless you want other ppl in your bed room you should have a top and a bottom. how ever some ppl are versatile...

[Levi scott]

To be honest I don't think it could work out well unless one of you are willing and I'm heading that's not so lol. But me in that case I'm versatile so it don't matter. Just try and work it out best you can I suppose

[prob1996]

In this case if you both are unwilliing to compromise or don't desire to bottom, it's going to be difficult to have sex. But there are plenty of other things you can do as you already know :P Yh, I don't think two "tops" can work

[fri13guy]

Thanks for the replys guys! Well, the other night we where getting a little heated, and when he noticed I wasent Gunna give him anything he just stopped, and we kinda sat there and watched tv...
Today, we where just talking about how we haven't really been on any dates, or really had any me and him time, so where Gunna do that for a little bit and I guess ignore the problem... But he's told me that he legit(in the full meaning of the word) loves me. All his other bf's apparently treated him badly, and cheated on him, so... The fact that I drew him a heart and slipped it under his apartment door when he wasent home ment a lot too him. (we where in kinda a fight) anyway, I'll post again when we figure it out... Or, just to let you all know how it's going, thanks again for replying!

[Megson]

Well, actually, not all gay couples NEED to have anal sex to connect or keep their relationship strong.

I read a survey that said an estimated 1/3 of steady gay couples had never had anal sex, don't plan to do it, and they're perfectly happy. Oral works perfectly fine, I suppose? :)