Does it weired like that?

[ashdaniel]

Since

[SportsNutChase]

Huge problem !!

[Spreadingwings]

I'd ask him why or catch him in the act and find out why, that seems like a problem if you ask me.

[StoppingTime]

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[Blind]

um thats a little weird. Parents shouldnt be doing that if he does it again report or ask him why he is doing it because its a little sketchy

[Funkapotamus]

Definitely weird. The moment you can wipe your own ass is the moment no one should touch your penis...unless you permit it of course. ;)

But he should definately not be doing that! Wrong!

[Stlboy]

I would ask him about it.

[spires]

thats melestation man u should tell ur mom or someone to make him stop thats not natural take my advice man

[John.Smith]

that is not right you should talk to your mom about it

[Fourth Dimension]

thats really weird dude i would report it

[HollisterrBboyy]

Talk to a school counselor, a friends parent, the principal, a teacher, a police, a crisis center, etc., because what your father has and sounds like he is doing to you is highly illegal, psychologically damaging, and overall messed up. He needs serious medical help, and is definitely not normal psychologically. About 8 out 10 male molesters were sexually abused when they were younger. I'm serious. This is an extremely serious issue and should NOT be taken lightly. Please, for your sake, and for your fathers, CONTACT AN ADULT and DO NOT hold back. I can't stress how serious this is that you seek out help immediately.. Good luck, and feel free to contact me..

[Jstr]

To answer you questions
1 NO!!!
MOst likely!!
And he Is a molester?????
Tell someone trust worthy now!!!!

[Foamy]

Pedophilia/molestation, more than likely... Talk to someone dude. If it persists without action, it could become an unstoppable addiction.

[shybi15]

You should deffinetly ask him why he did it. If he doesnt have a reasonable answer then you should go and talk with someone who can help you out. In some cases, that could be a crime.

[CryWolf]

that is not right you should talk to your mom about it

^^I'm with this one here. Don't wait either.

[Trinity_15]

Ask him and report it

[nznews]

WTF Thats Wrong On So Many Levels

[Nicky97]

NEVER let anyone else tell you what you should do within your own family. This isn't common, to be sure, but whether you get along well with your dad or not, give him the chance to discover that you are aware and don't want him to. A gentle comment, acting like you are waking up, something that is solution oriented. Consider your family, your well-being, you security. There are MUCH larger concerns that trying to go behind his back and destroy the family.

And I would be careful about anyone who encourages you to go off like a crazy person and talk to others about it. It's like they are putting a loaded gun in your hands. These are not "friends".

[jvballer]

i would be a little concerned if this was happening to me, i would defiantly start asking questions

[CryWolf]

NEVER let anyone else tell you what you should do within your own family. This isn't common, to be sure, but whether you get along well with your dad or not, give him the chance to discover that you are aware and don't want him to. A gentle comment, acting like you are waking up, something that is solution oriented. Consider your family, your well-being, you security. There are MUCH larger concerns that trying to go behind his back and destroy the family.

And I would be careful about anyone who encourages you to go off like a crazy person and talk to others about it. It's like they are putting a loaded gun in your hands. These are not "friends".

I don't want to cause dissension here, but I think its important to note that we are talking about a form of molestation here. Regardless of what explanation is given by the offender, it is what it is. I do see your point about causing problems in the family, but the risk of continued assault outweighs this concern, and in fact is the largest concern really. In not reporting it there is the risk of the offending individual being able to 'explain away' what is most assuredly not normal or even acceptable. Too many times these things don't get reported and the family suffers even more because its allowed to go on. Also there is the danger of a violent reaction from the offender when confronted regardless of how gently it is done. That's a big risk!
Again I usually don't go back and forth with people in threads like this, but this one seems like an important exception to me.

For the record, to say that "anyone who encourages reporting of stuff like this is not a friend" is irresponsible. While there may be different opinions on the subject, I think we can be concerned friends with opposite opinions. Again, no disrespect intended.

[HollisterrBboyy]

I would, as I said before talk to someone about it. This is NOT A CRAZY SOLUTION. Don't wake up or act like you know because there have been instances like this and the child is kore severely abused in regards to physicality. Tell someone and I guarantee you will get the appropriate help you nee. You can't deal with molestation with the molester because from the get-go there is something evidently wrong in the brain, causing them to do something like this. It would be the equivalent of asking a toddler to be rational; it doesn't happen. Please, I beg you, for your own sake, talk to someone. It is not crazy, you are not betraying your father, or any other family member/friend; simply helpin yourself stay sane, alert, alive and well.

[Fiction]

Locking this thread as the OP obviously doesn't want anymore replies. :locked: