This Just Doesn't Add Up!..

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

in a nutshell i've been single for over 2 years now...

Now people say that im pretty, don't get me wrong its not on a regular basis! but i know i cant be the most hideous thing on the map!... (even if i secretly think it..)

So why i am single?! i know looks arnt everything, but i have a bunch of friends, im told im fun.. i just dont understand what im doing wrong! :confused:

I go out on a regular basis to socialise, so im not dwelling in my room for weeks...

People must just see me in a 'friend-kinda-light'...

I miss being in a relationship and am really ready to get close to someone... i just dont know how or anyhting..

ANY THOUGHTS OR COMMENTS WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED - unless they're mean :P

know its a knida scattered post but i just need to get it out to people who wont judge!

[Contra]

I don't think you're doing anything wrong, you just haven't found the right person, nor that person has found you.
I believe you don't want to hook up with the first John Doe that shows up, so you shouldn't worry too much about it, or you'll get desperate, to the point where you get slutty. Sorry if this sounded mean, but it's what I think.

[StoppingTime]

You've got nothing to worry about. First off, you are far from "the most hideous thing on the map" so I certainly wouldn't worry about that. You haven't found the right person yet, and thats fine! That is nothing to worry about, and certainly not something you want to rush. Like John said above, don't rush it, and don't get worked up over it.
There is someone out there made just for you, its just you two haven't found each other, and as I said, it's nothing you should be ashamed or worried about. Don't pay attention to who any of your friends have, just wait until you find that person. It may not be easy, but you will find them.


Best of luck to you!

Steve/StoppingTime

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

You've got nothing to worry about. First off, you are far from "the most hideous thing on the map" so I certainly wouldn't worry about that. You haven't found the right person yet, and thats fine! That is nothing to worry about, and certainly not something you want to rush. Like John said above, don't rush it, and don't get worked up over it.
There is someone out there made just for you, its just you two haven't found each other, and as I said, it's nothing you should be ashamed or worried about. Don't pay attention to who any of your friends have, just wait until you find that person. It may not be easy, but you will find them.


Best of luck to you!

Steve/StoppingTime


thank you :')

[StoppingTime]

thank you :')

Your Welcome, and if there is anything else you need, don't heists to PM me or post again :)

Good Luck :)

[Rutherford The Brave]

Relationships can be rather troublesome in my opinion, but I mean its whatever you want in the end. I think that you can do anything, but sometimes its nice to have someone who loves you deeply but isn't bound too you by a relationship. Now I'm not saying you should sleep around, Im just saying keep your options open, your a young woman and there are plenty of nice guys out there.

[ryantombs]

my best advice dont look for a relationship... honestly you wont get one/ wont get the right one let it come to you... thats wat i did and i found the love of my life but i lost her (long story ) but yea just be patient you should have no troubles once you found your guy (you will know) best of luck to ya

[StoppingTime]

my best advice dont look for a relationship... honestly you wont get one/ wont get the right one let it come to you... thats wat i did and i found the love of my life but i lost her (long story ) but yea just be patient you should have no troubles once you found your guy (you will know) best of luck to ya

This isn't entirely true. You shouldn't just sit back and wait. That may work for some, but not others. Is it possible? Yes. Would it increase the chances the other way? Yes.

Its all your preference.

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

Confused.com!

[StoppingTime]

Confused.com!

About what?

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

Everything, people keep giving me different advice! Still thank you one and all for posting back :)

[StoppingTime]

Everything, people keep giving me different advice! Still thank you one and all for posting back :)

Try to pick the pieces that work best for you. Obviously, don't choose something you're uncomfortable with. :)

Good Luck again :)

~StoppingTime/Steve