What to do?

[Randy93]

i want to have sex with my girl friend but i dont want to get her pregnant or anything. i want to know if i could have sex with her without using a condom beacause im 13 years old and for me to walk into a shop to buy condoms or ask family would be embarrasing and you know how the word gets around, what if my parents found out. I also had a thaugt that what if i'm too young for it but i really love her and we both agreed to move it up and have sex can you please post your reply? thanks:kissfriend: :love:

[Aηdy]

I would advise you not to have sex because you asre still very young. And if you do have sex wear a condom! The alternative to sex at a younger age is oral sex, i would reccomed this because you are too yound for sex and if you think you can have sex without a condom you obviously don't know enough about it. She could get pregnant or one of you cound get an STD.

[Maverick]

If you're too embarrassed to get condoms you don't need to be having sex. In fact at 13 you shouldn't be having sex period. You are obviously not educated on sex because if you were you would know that unprotected sex is one of the most stupidest things you can do. If you love her you wouldn't engage in sex for the safety of both your futures from life changing mistakes like pregnancy.

Honestly wait a few years and get educated. You've barely begun puberty at 13 and this isn't the kind of thing you want to get yourself involved in this young.

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You don't have to go to a store to buy condoms you can ussually find them in truckstop bathrooms just not as cheap as at store

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

1. you're definitally too young to have sex. if u really need to, have oral sex. its just kinda too early. and also, Anthony makes a great point, if ur too embarassed to buy condoms then ur defintally not ready for sex. you should be able to get up the courage to buy condoms at a conveiniece store or pharamcy by the time ur ready to have sex. ur too young

[MoveAlong]

-¤;144124']You don't have to go to a store to buy condoms you can ussually find them in truckstop bathrooms just not as cheap as at store

These condoms are not recommended as they can break easily!

I don't think you should be having sex at 13
And I think if you would ever want to try you should go get a condom no matter what
Basically what everone else said

[Randy93]

thanks guys. i guess it would be even more embarassing if they found out i had sex anyways, i finally came to my senses but now how am i going to tell my girlfriend to wait unltil like 5 years? thats just a thaught its not a question.lol

[Giga Smashes]

i want to have sex with my girl friend but i dont want to get her pregnant or anything. i want to know if i could have sex with her without using a condom beacause im 13 years old and for me to walk into a shop to buy condoms or ask family would be embarrasing and you know how the word gets around, what if my parents found out. I also had a thaugt that what if i'm too young for it but i really love her and we both agreed to move it up and have sex can you please post your reply? thanks:kissfriend: :love:

just go into wallgreens or something and some condoms they dont care at all. really they dont. they dont even give u a wierd look. i first got them when i was 13 (14 now) and i didnt get any wierd look or anything. parents never found out, she didnt tell anyone, u dont have to worry about it, just buy some condoms its no big deal at all. and its the saffest thing to do to not get her pregnent

I don't think you should be having sex at 13


i think he can do it if he wants . . . i did and i wasnt like fucked up or anything.

[Randy93]

yeh easier sed that done, i live in belize. in case you've never heard of it its a really small place having only 12 people per square kilo. so theres no k-mart or mcdonalds(god i love dose) or wallgreens there like a hundred people going i shops here a day!!! and gossip runs fast in villages.

[Bankai15]

-¤;144124']You don't have to go to a store to buy condoms you can ussually find them in truckstop bathrooms just not as cheap as at store

Okay.... you hang out in truckstop bathrooms? Back to the topic at hand DONT HAVE SEX YET PERiOD.

[Maverick]

just go into wallgreens or something and some condoms they dont care at all. really they dont. they dont even give u a wierd look. i first got them when i was 13 (14 now) and i didnt get any wierd look or anything. parents never found out, she didnt tell anyone, u dont have to worry about it, just buy some condoms its no big deal at all. and its the saffest thing to do to not get her pregnent



i think he can do it if he wants . . . i did and i wasnt like fucked up or anything.
You don't know what you're talking about. Just because your supposed girlfriend didn't tell anyone doesn't mean that for him he won't. Just because everything went fine and dandy for you doesn't mean it will for him. If it were that simple then STDs and pregnancy wouldn't be the huge problem it is now. Your whole story could be made up for all we know.

You're only 14 and haven't even grown up yet. Try getting a bit older and understand life before you encourage kids to have sex when they don't know what they're doing. You're not helping him at all.

[dannyley]

yer, gat a condom

[Antares]

well im going to be the biased poster and say YOU ARE TOO YOUNG WAIT

[ThatCanadianGuy]

YOU SHOULD WAIT...

Like everyone else says you are WAY too young! BUT that doesn't mean you can't do sexual things with your girlfriend! The safest thing you can do is mutually masturbate each other (ie fingering/handjob) because there is NO RISK of pregnance OR STD's! Other people posted about having oral sex, but YOU CAN get std's from oral sex. Herpes on your dick may be bad, but on your mouth and face?! BLECH!!!

[Gumleaf]

i'm 13 and the one thing my gf and i are certain about is that we are both to young for sex.

[Iron]

at your age, moving it up to sex is going a little too far. It's best just to keep it at a safer area such as making out, going too far isn't always the best idea for there are many dangers upon that road such as contracting an STD, and ipregnating her

[Giga Smashes]

You don't know what you're talking about. Just because your supposed girlfriend didn't tell anyone doesn't mean that for him he won't. Just because everything went fine and dandy for you doesn't mean it will for him. If it were that simple then STDs and pregnancy wouldn't be the huge problem it is now. Your whole story could be made up for all we know.

You're only 14 and haven't even grown up yet. Try getting a bit older and understand life before you encourage kids to have sex when they don't know what they're doing. You're not helping him at all.

I'm not encouraging him . . . i just said to do w.e he wanted. but the safest thing to do is get condoms. arguing with me isnt helping him at all. so lets end this argument and try to help him.