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abdheuuuchjc
October 3rd, 2011, 10:07 PM
In my family I am the black sheeP. While everyone in my family is watching sports I'm reading,when everyone in my family is listening to lil Wayne I'm listening to the who. Everyone in my family is kinda short I'm 5 10 and in only 14. I don't relate to anyone in my family. Help!!

DerBear
October 4th, 2011, 01:43 AM
everyone feels like that or well most do theres nothing we can really help you with on this matter

Blind
October 4th, 2011, 04:56 AM
This isnt uncommon. Just because they are your family it doesnt mean you have to be exactly like them. You are your own person and you like your own things. You cant change that it's who you are. Ive also seen this type of things with twins people assume that because they are twins they must share the same brain. This is not true they are 2 different people they have different brains and different interests. They might have some of the same interests but not all. Just because you dont like the same things your family doesnt like it doesnt make you different. There isnt really anything you can do because it's your life and your mind. So just enjoy the things you do and dont worry so much about what your family thinks :)

Contra
October 4th, 2011, 10:37 AM
That's perfectly normal! I think you should stick to being yourself, you don't have to be like them, so don't feel bad about being different. If we were all the same, everything would be very boring...

ImCoolBeans
October 4th, 2011, 04:24 PM
You're a true individual :)

StoppingTime
October 4th, 2011, 05:12 PM
So? Its good to be a unique individual. As ling as your not bothered because of it, then you've got nothing to worry about!

crazyhyperway
October 4th, 2011, 06:03 PM
As all the adults in my life say, "If everyone was the same life would be boring."

kathsmith81
October 8th, 2011, 12:43 AM
You're a true individual

Spi_vey
October 11th, 2011, 05:20 AM
Being different from them doesn't make you the black sheep. It makes you your own person.

mxiii
October 13th, 2011, 10:56 AM
dare to be different ! xD

FAC-
October 14th, 2011, 01:48 AM
Just be yourself. :)

Kujiro
October 14th, 2011, 08:10 AM
Theres absolutely nothing wrong with you, you have highlighted different types of interest in you choice of music, television programs.
Which i believe its highly subjective, at home is a place where you should feel comfortable doing what you want to do, read the book you enjoy, blast the music in your own personal space.

This is the time and place where you can let your hair down, and finally be yourself, rather than wearing a hypocritical mask to blend with peers and trying to be someone you are not.

You have mentioned height, as you have mentioned, you are taller than most of your family members, which i believe that it was a resessive gene which was passed down further up in your ancestry.

Do not worry too much about it, have a cookie and enjoy whats infront of you.

Cheers
*smile*