My best friends girl-moral dilemia

[abdheuuuchjc]

Hey my name is Ethan and I have a problem. My best friend patrick has this gf named mikayla and I'm in love with her. She is no doubt the most amazing person I hav ever met but she's dating my bro. I would ask here out but im to loyal to patrick. If I don't ask her out my heart dies. What if I ask her put and she says no and Patrick gets mad at me. I need some advice plz help

[Sage]

You're at the age where every girl you've liked is the greatest person you've ever met. Your heart will continue to pump blood regardless of your relationship status- Don't ruin a good friendship to possibly get with a girl in a relationship that won't last anyway.

[abdheuuuchjc]

Dude u don't get it this girl is lgt. She is the only person I know who gets me.

[CaptainObvious]

Dude u don't get it this girl is lgt. She is the only person I know who gets me.

doesn't matter. if you care about your friend at all, you don't do anything while she's dating him. period.

[abdheuuuchjc]

Man I can't live like this its to much pressureI hate gd relationships sometimes. But outta respect for pat I will back off

[chillaxman]

If she's the only one who "gets" you, then Patrick shouldn't matter at all.

But seriously, just don't ask her out. Going after taken people is not "pursuing what you want", it just makes you a slut/whore/whatever. Besides, you already know she's taken. By your best friend even. Two potential relationships to seriously go downhill. Don't risk it, there's too much to lose. There are plenty of girls out there, you just aren't looking hard enough. :)

[abdheuuuchjc]

I will back off but dude if u ever met this girl I swear man she's the best. She had me at "hey pat who's ur friend"

[Clawhammer]

Do what's right by her. If she's happy, leave her be. Honestly, I think I have to go with Sage on this one. Sure maybe you do love her. But this is reality, laddy, where shit happens. All in all, you could lose a friend and gain a girl, with whom I honestly doubt things would last, a relationship requires a lot more than love from one person to last, or you could lose two friends, or you could keep them and go through a cycle of depression which probably won't last too long. Take it from me, lad, I've believed myself in love, and gone through the heart ache of it not happening, and turned out just fine in the end.

[abdheuuuchjc]

Man relationships suck!!

[Sage]

Man relationships suck!!

They sure do, so go make the best of your situation and be happy about the friendships you do have.

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

gunna go for the old 'bro's before hoes'.. although i dont like how girls are refered to as hoes...

still, youve got to remember shes not available! i was in your exact situation couple years ago with my mate ive known for 8 years,... needless to say i fucked it up, and it really wasnt worth loosing that friendship over

dont go for her mate, thats my advise, even if its not what you wanna hear.