Is he gay?

[holdendeman]

There's this guy I REALLY like and I think he's gay... All the gay guy stereotypes apply to him... All of his friends are girls, the voice, awkward around guys, had to change last in swimming, he's 13, flirts with some guys...
He and his best friend (a girl) were talking. She called a guy queer and She and him looked at eachother immediately smiling as if saying "yeah, we know who is really queer!". My best friend and I (she knows I am gay) do that whenever something about gay people is said.
Whenever someone calls him gay and it is a guy he doesn't deny it and flirts back. I jokingly called his voice "gay" (I regret saying it because I feel mean...) And he smiled and said "I should smack you!" He also once asked me if I wanted a hug jokingly, I said no and he hugged me four like five seconds (It was amazing)...
BUT
He has had many girlfriends and he posts pictures of him and her kissing.
Do you think he is gay?
Thanks :)

[Tristin.]

hmm, there is one way to know, the best way, ask him. if he says no, the chances are he's not (or he is hiding it) if he says yes, then you have your answer.

[SosbanFach]

Yeah, ask. The stereotypes (voice, body language etc.) don't really tell you anything, and some straight guys like to act gay as a joke, and to make friends feel uncomfortable. Asking him is really the only sure way to find out.