I guess im bi

[Wolf822]

Hey guys recently my girlfriend whom is bisexual asked me if i had ever had sexual thoughts about myself and another guy. This got me thinking, i do like girls obviously and i care about my girlfriend now and am attracted to her on a physical and emotional level. But i have had thoughts about guys, now i can accept myself as bi thats not what worries me what worries me is that if i did get involved with a guy i think it would be purely sexual. I know this makes me a terrible person but i cant help it. I don’t know what to do its all so confusing! please help me out

[StoppingTime]

Just because someone thinks you might be, doesn't mean you are. don't rush your decision, its a hard one. Just really think about who you are and who you want to be.


Good Luck :)

[Funkapotamus]

Yeah, don't be to hasty in labelling yourself, if anything you shouldn't be worrying about that. Having a sexual fling with another guy passes it off as curious if you intended from the beginning that you only wanted to find out things. But if that fling turns out to be a constant sexual endeavour with the same sex you most likely are classified bi, of course this is if your love for the opposite sex trumps it in every way.

[Hajara22]

everyone or well almost everyone plays with the same sex at some point out of sheer curiousity