issue at home coming with girl

[bradsandman123]

Ok so last night at homecoming the girl i was with pulled on my tie. While she was pulling on it I got a woody she noticed i was very embarrassed because were just friends. she looked shocked but looked like she got turned on from it and she continued to pull on my tie and it kept getting bigger so I sat down to hide it i really feel like i ruined the night tho because of it i don't know what to say about it if she asks and this was just after i asked her out and she said she'll think about it i really need some help about now. i feel like i ruined my chances with her because she has very high morals about these types of things please i need advice badly

[Dimitri]

Evidently one of two things happened last night.

#1: She did it because she knew what it did and enjoyed messing with your emotions

#2: She likes you and kept going....

I say that she likes you in a way and if she askes you what happened just tell her the truth, say I am sorry, you turned me on. If there is one thing I have learned is that in a situation like this it is easier if you tell her the truth instead of lieing to her. I think she will respect you more being truthful than lieing.

[bradsandman123]

hey thanks man for the advice i'll see how it turns out.

[Contra]

I agree with Robert, it's not something you can control, I believe she'll understand. I don't think your chances with her are totally ruined. ;)

[LuckyLuke]

For future reference, the evenings awkwardness could have been avoided if you had told her upon happening, saying something such as, "Guess you just turn me on" and doing a cocky smile... it would've smoothed over the situation instantly.

I think that you still have a chance, she continued to pull the tie knowing what it was doing and that implies something.

[bradsandman123]

Well she asked about it i told her the truth and she said she knew what she was doing she really likes me and now where about to start dating. and she said she did it because shes a virgin and she wants to know more.

[Dabigdtc]

nice man good luck to you and her