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Nameless
October 2nd, 2011, 12:11 PM
My Ex split up with me about 6 weeks ago and we ended on good terms and said we would remain friends and all that. We've had a few weeks of no contact and then randomly even after she dumped me and suggested we remained friends she deletes me off facebook. I haven't done anything or said anything.. and she just deletes me.
Is she trying to attract me attention or is she just clearing me out of her life?
Dark_Desires
October 2nd, 2011, 01:30 PM
I have been in a similar situation except my ex didnt delete me just ignored me.As a few people have said to give it time.She could still be hurt and doesnt want to see ur stuff i know when i see soemthing like that it can be triggering for me.I doubt its atention seeking or something like that
Contra
October 2nd, 2011, 04:48 PM
Like I said on Ethan's thread, it's not easy to maintain a friendship after a break-up, there are a lot of feelings mixed up there. Maybe she said she wanted to do it, because it was the mature thing to do, but she has reconsidered since then and thought she couldn't handle it, it's awfully common. I say you should leave her unless you think it's worthy talking to her again.
Nameless
October 6th, 2011, 01:39 PM
Thanks for your replies, she ended up adding me back and now she has deleted me again...is she playing games?
Also she has kept my best mate added even though we cleared out each others friends, she added him back..
Contra
October 6th, 2011, 02:56 PM
That is really weird, it sure looks like she is playing games. I think you should talk to her and clear this whole thing out.
Nameless
October 6th, 2011, 03:20 PM
Mhmm i'm thinking about talking to her but I'm not sure whether it's actually worth it tbh.
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