How to get a girl to like me (She hates the idea of intimacy)

[FuruZaki]

so i'm 13 and there's this girl my age who I like. She's kinda short, flat chested (but breasts aren't really the main thing in relationship anyways). So I like her and I haven't asked her out yet but there might be a problem. When we've talked in class and stuff about various things i've found out some stuff. She finds the whole idea of masturbation gross and unnatural. So I was thinking if we ever did go out with each other would it be a very weird relation ship like holding hands and hugging and maybe a kiss now and then. I wouldn't want to rush her if we went out. Would we never move on from first base? Would I never be able to "pleasure" her in any way? or vice versa. I don't think she's ever masturbated so she's probably never had an orgasm and I kinda feel weird like I want her to feel an orgasm coz how great it is and I feel like she's missing out on alot. I'm really confused :what:

[Contra]

She said she finds the idea of maturbation unnatural, maybe she doesn't feel the same about sex. But you're 13 and I don't believe you should be thinking about that this soon.
About the relationship thing, it wouldn't be weird, that's what most couples do, they're not sexing up each other all the time, they hug, hold hands and kiss, but most of all, they love each other, that's the main thing about a relationship. So, unless she doesn't want to be in a relationship or doesn't love you (or vice-versa), you should go for it. When your relationship has been going on for a long time, it's more reasonable to think about sex. Who knows? She might even change her opinion.

[LuckyLuke]

You don't enter a relationship to have sex. That's just not what you do.

You're in a relationship for the care you share for one another and, as the relationship progresses over many weeks and months, eventually you share how you feel for one another through more intimate activities.

As for her being opposed to masturbation, it's entirely possible she didn't feel comfortable or secure enough telling you that she, in fact, does and although it's possible that she doesn't or she hasn't, it's also likely that she has.

Also, couples don't, as John put it, sex one another up all the time. They hold hands and they do a peck on the cheek or head once in awhile because that's a way to show that they care for one another. Of course you two are going to hold hands or kiss eventually, that's what couples do.