is this gay?

[Cole881]

Me and my friend are both straight but we slept over one night and slept together and we gave each other hj were both 15

[AncientCatastrophe]

Its perfectly fine, you're still young and teenage boys like you are still growing and curious but don't tell anyone that you did it cause they may not think of it as fine. :)

[TrevorTime]

It's just experimenting, so it's not considered gay at all. Now if you did some back door action, that's a whole other ball game.

[Jesse17]

imagine you're looking into a crowd, and what genders u would pay more attention to?
think about it sometimes, i guess it helps you to figure out what is ur sex tendency
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Im Jesse from taiwan, and i think im bi or gay ( not so sure about it though)
plz feel free to contact me. im new here btw :)

[prob1996]

Experimenting is normal, especially at our age. It doesn't determine sexuality at all. Don't worry so much about labels. As long as you and your friend were both cool with it, who cares? have some fun and enjoy!

[Gandalf]

It's just experimenting, so it's not considered gay at all. Now if you did some back door action, that's a whole other ball game.


That would also just be experimintation surely?

[Foamy]

It's only experimentation, there's nothing to worry about.

[Boxerbriefs96]

No, not really, you were just having some fun out of the name of curiousity.

[ThomasE]

Unless you are developing emotions for your friend, it is just called "experimenting".

[TrevorTime]

That would also just be experimintation surely?

Well I dunno about that. There are 3 levels of boy to boy sex, you have hand jobs, then oral, then anal. If a boy is truly straight, I don't really think he is gonna want any serious back door action.

[SportsNutChase]

I would not worry about it. I dont know if I would do that with a friend but I dont see anything wrong with it. Most of my guy friends if they were in my bed and I tried that it wouldnt go over really well.. but if you guys are cool with it no problem.

[Trinity_15]

I don't consider hj's and bj's as sex. since you didn't penetrate each other how would you be gay?

[CaptainObvious]

I don't consider hj's and bj's as sex. since you didn't penetrate each other how would you be gay?

there's gay people who don't like anal sex and never do it. they're still gay.

Me and my friend are both straight but we slept over one night and slept together and we gave each other hj were both 15

acts don't determine your sexuality. you could give hundreds of guys handjobs and blowjobs and be straight (don't know why you would, but you could). similarly, you could be totally gay and never have done anything with a guy. the question is, which gender are you sexually attracted to? if it's only girls, you're straight. if it's only guys, you're gay. if you're attracted to both (which could mean anything from attracted equally, to mainly preferring one gender and occasionally being turned on by the other), you're somewhere in the vast middle called "bisexual."

[the beast]

It's just experimenting, so it's not considered gay at all. Now if you did some back door action, that's a whole other ball game.

I agree

[samb12]

thats is fine it doesnt make u gay u guys are only fooling around

[jockeyboy97]

No your not gay, just horny teens experimenting. When I first experimented with my friend I felt so guilty but after reading many posts from virtual teen I realized it is natural. I still like girls and have experimented with a few of them. So no worries.

[John.Smith]

Just curious i have done the same before

[Colby90]

I've done this too when I was a lil younger than you
No I don't think it is but I'm glad I did it opened
Up my sexuality I'm pretty open to whatever now and
Makes things more fun if u felt comfortable with it
Then do it hope this helps

[nznews]

Its Normal Ive Done It Many times.

IM Bi PM Me If U Want To Talk From New Zealand

[Nicky97]

You did it, you enjoyed it, does it matter that label you put on it? Or do you think that straight people are 100% straight 100% of the time?

Sex is fun. Boys will be boys. Does this predict your behavior once you become an adult? No.

[Joe1996]

No, it's not gay, it's just being curious or experimenting.
Also, it feels good whoever does it to you, so does it actually matter if it was gay or not?

[MassiveAttack]

It's fine your just experimenting.

[ashdaniel]

atlot str do that to it not really gay it just sexual experience

[SenorGrand]

some people might consider it gay, but i don't. i haven't however, but i might be ok doing it

[Victor]

You did it, you enjoyed it, does it matter that label you put on it? Or do you think that straight people are 100% straight 100% of the time?

Sex is fun. Boys will be boys. Does this predict your behavior once you become an adult? No.

I totally agree.
Boys will be boys, it could really open your eyes, you could find that you like guys so why not experiment?

[Viking]

This is not gay, just experimenting.

[Unsolvedmind]

It's perfectly fine

[rockman1]

i say that doent matter as long as your happy and doent effect you

[abdheuuuchjc]

It's fine dude

[Joey2198]

not at all plus its your choice if you like then do it dont let others tell you what to think

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

It is normal man

[legitt]

Its fine your just curious and it doesnt make you gay.

[itsthat0n3kid]

It's just experimenting, so it's not considered gay at all. Now if you did some back door action, that's a whole other ball game.

i couldnt explain it any better.

[Thanatos]

You're 15, don't worry about labels.

[acurasrock]

You were experimenting, and getting your nut off, no big deal, perfectly normal thing to do at 15, It's not gay, unless you have an attraction to your friend and start kissing and making out and stuff.

[Cole881]

Thanks, everyone for your support!

[Cole881]

.cedfe

[Clown Fish]

Nah you guys are fine.

[Cole881]

and i might be goin over to his house this weekend, after i go to my gf's house lol

[austin callahan]

naw its just being curious dude..dont worry about it...its fun isnt it lol

[dixie8123]

Just expirmenting

[Zach_014]

No you are experimenting.

[Hajara22]

its normal to experiment. thats nothing.

[darthreilly]

yea man thats just experimenting. dont sweat it

[Clown Fish]

It was nothing more than experimentation, nothing wrong with it.

[patrick2010]

ya dude itz normal nothing wrong with it

[Just_meh]

Idk if this continues then its possbile, but its not necesarry

[Saxophone 44]

No action can be considered gay. Being gay is a sexuality, a way of life. Is playing baseball gay? No. Is doing homework gay? No. Is building a Boeing 787 Dreamliner out of LEGO's gay? No. My point is, you are only gay if you are not attracted to girls whatsoever. You're fine.

[NephilimAzrael]

just curious experimenting, all teens do it (or wanna) perfectly normal

[zkid2012]

enjoy it.. your still young and experimenting in life..
YouOnlyLiveOnce

[Sudds3]

Completely normal

[Ian.C]

Doesnt meean your gay just curious

[TDWPFAN2012]

no its not gat doesnt matter if u did bjs still isnt gay

[Bojan]

Not gay fun is fun I've done it with friends and all it means to us is a bit of fun

[Ben_E]

TOTS normal, its just experimenting.

[zach17020]

its definatly wierd.

[swimmerboy95]

Definitely just experimentation. Nothing wrong with it at all.

[this_kids_a_DJ]

I have never done it and I think it is something I could live without doing. However I would agree with most people here and say that it is definitely experimentation, and all guys should experiment at least once. You have nothing to worry about dude.

[UTurn]

It's only gay if you want it to be. Gay is emotional not necessarily physical.

[ImCoolBeans]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: