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SinisterMystery
October 1st, 2011, 11:05 PM
I don't know whether to put this in here or Family and Relationships because my question falls under both categories. So I apologize if it's in the wrong area.

Okay, I told my dad I am bi a while ago. He sort of just shrugged me off and didn't really listen. And I brought it up recently to see if he minded (his 'acceptance' means a lot to me) and he asked me if I was really serious. I told him that I am very serious and would not have said anything if I wasn't certain, but then he said that he thinks I am too young to be sure and that I'm probably not.

Is he right? Because my feelings towards girls are not only physical but emotional and I have had numerous crushes on girls as well as guys all throughout my life.

thecanjump
October 1st, 2011, 11:58 PM
To a point he is. But if you have had these feelings for a long time and know of them, I don't think he is correct about it with you. He is probably in denial that his child could be bi. Stick with what you feel is right for you, it's your life. =)

SinisterMystery
October 3rd, 2011, 03:38 PM
Thanks.

holdendeman
October 3rd, 2011, 09:17 PM
In my opinion, your never too young to know. The description you gave of yourself sounds pretty bisexual. He just doesn't understand because he's straight.

SinisterMystery
October 3rd, 2011, 09:37 PM
Thanks, I know I am.

logan fields
October 7th, 2011, 06:47 PM
i would go with what i felt inside and evn though dads love us they can never understand what we feel inside.