She is too shy about verbalizing sexual needs and desires?

[luis_vani]

I am in a very committed and loving relationship with my Russian Fiancée for over one year. We met online, had intense discussions via phone and comp for 5 months before meeting in person. When we first met, she was curious about sexual desires and we cybered a few times. She was always very positive and told me that we were very compatible sexually. In person when we met, she waited the first evening after a romantic meeting and dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and the second day I couldn’t keep her off me. I was always a gentleman and was considerate in making sure she was ok with any progression of lovemaking. Since our meeting, she makes positive innuendos as to our sexuality together, but if I start to become aroused in our conversation, she drops the subject as if she is shy or does not want it to go further. I know she desires to be with me and I am certain she is faithful. My question and bewilderment is; given our level of intimacy and trust together, and the fact we had a mutually compatible sexual experience, why would she seemingly have no interest in expressing her sexual feelings or wanting to culminate them with me via phone comp, especially since I know she enjoyed it at the beginning of our relationship? I am very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian woman’s perspective? By the way, she is 23 and very intelligent and sophisticated.

Thanks for any ideas you may have.

[Maverick]

Maybe she's waiting on you to make the first move.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

um....... virtualTEENforums?

You need to find somewhere else to ask this we're all kids here man!

At least.... I HOPE we all are!

Anyways if you want like the opinions of 13-16 year olds who've barely had a real relationship yet; then STAY TUNED!!!

lol :D

[Aηdy]

I am in a very committed and loving relationship with my Russian Fiancée for over one year. We met online, had intense discussions via phone and comp for 5 months before meeting in person. When we first met, she was curious about sexual desires and we cybered a few times. She was always very positive and told me that we were very compatible sexually. In person when we met, she waited the first evening after a romantic meeting and dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and the second day I couldn’t keep her off me. I was always a gentleman and was considerate in making sure she was ok with any progression of lovemaking. Since our meeting, she makes positive innuendos as to our sexuality together, but if I start to become aroused in our conversation, she drops the subject as if she is shy or does not want it to go further. I know she desires to be with me and I am certain she is faithful. My question and bewilderment is; given our level of intimacy and trust together, and the fact we had a mutually compatible sexual experience, why would she seemingly have no interest in expressing her sexual feelings or wanting to culminate them with me via phone comp, especially since I know she enjoyed it at the beginning of our relationship? I am very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian woman’s perspective? By the way, she is 23 and very intelligent and sophisticated.

Thanks for any ideas you may have.

To be honest, your not really going to get the answer you are looking for here. This forum is for and run by teenagers.

[Maverick]

I don't see where he said he was over 19...

[Aηdy]

I don't see where he said he was over 19...
Yeah but hes asking advice on somebody who is 23 and well nobody here can really help that much. Also the user has done some advertising and stuff in the past on Vt.

[Maverick]

Ah good point!

[Antares]

yeah and his typing is mighty proper too
usually teens are not using caps on forums
maybe someone should verify his age and act on that.

and just to answer your question from a 14 yr old
just tell her "are you happy"

[bryce_kihoyi]

My advice - Learn about the culture. Never talk about sex before you become intimate. It's not the done thing. I found useful information about values and culture of Latvian and Russian women from a local dating site www.randevu.lv
Hope this helps.

[Antares]

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[ThatCanadianGuy]

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[RowanVer.3.0]

um....... virtualTEENforums?

You need to find somewhere else to ask this we're all kids here man!

At least.... I HOPE we all are!

Anyways if you want like the opinions of 13-16 year olds who've barely had a real relationship yet; then STAY TUNED!!!

lol :D
I thought this deserved a quote.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure I'm not a shrink.. So I can't really tell you why she would be doing this.. But to a 15 year old kid that hasn't had a SERIOUS relationship, it seems like she's not telling you something. Take my advice with a grain of salt, I'm 15 after all.

That is all.
-R

[Gumleaf]

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[Antares]

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[Antares]

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