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wizard
April 9th, 2007, 06:08 PM
theres this girl i really like & i know she really likes me
but how do i tell her nice and easy that i like her?
plz help me.

Aηdy
April 9th, 2007, 06:15 PM
Boys puberty :arrow: Relationships

Gumleaf
April 9th, 2007, 07:49 PM
maybe just ask her out for a milkshake or something like that. then maybe ask her when your alone or something like that.

ThatCanadianGuy
April 9th, 2007, 09:32 PM
JUST SAY IT: I LIKE YOU!

It seems to get the point across for me!

Gumleaf
April 9th, 2007, 10:10 PM
its good being blunt. at least there is no confusion, but maybe an awkward silence! thats the brave way to do things!!!

Antares
April 10th, 2007, 11:29 PM
just say

well i like you and i was wondering if you like me? (yes)

cool well do you wanna go out?

wizard
April 12th, 2007, 02:52 PM
thanks guys hears an update i see her almost every week we go 2 martial arts together we live 45 minitus away from eachother i raerly c her alone thanks.

Ironic Infidel In England
April 13th, 2007, 04:06 PM
Then just pin her in martial arts and say "you know, you're really pretty... want to go out?" Just an idea.

ThatCanadianGuy
April 13th, 2007, 09:44 PM
Then just pin her in martial arts and say "you know, you're really pretty... want to go out?" Just an idea.

Ha, that would be kinda hot, in a James Bond-ish sorta way. Try that idea out!

Antares
April 13th, 2007, 10:04 PM
whoa think about that before you do it
she could be freaked out

american_idiot
April 15th, 2007, 12:26 AM
lol seriouslyhttp://www.funnyjunk.com

wizard
May 16th, 2007, 03:55 PM
Ha, that would be kinda hot, in a James Bond-ish sorta way. Try that idea out!

ah no i dont think so i'v liked her since i was 11 thats like love at first sight.

bahari mtoto
May 16th, 2007, 04:43 PM
Ask if you can talk to her alone for a minute then look into her eyes and tell her that you like her just as much as she likes you.

-Adam-
May 16th, 2007, 07:07 PM
If your completely sure that she likes you, just be blunt about it go up to her on your way in or on your way out and just tell her flat out that you like her and see where it goes from there, if she doesn't give you an answer give her a little while and don't push it but let her think about it a little bit and maybe go up and talk to her again awhile later, like on your way out of MA or the next time you see her

pretty much what ive always done

CryingEye666
May 27th, 2007, 09:19 PM
hey wizard
im in the same situation ur in too lol
well its really a close one though
i like this girl , i dont know if she likes me yet, but i know she knows i like her
so yea it can be weird at times
tuesday im just gona try to simply say 'hi' to her
and hopefully things will go well from there.
maybe u try doing the same?
like get her alone and just talk to her calmly ?
i dont know, im tryin it
good luck to ya

mynameisjane
May 30th, 2007, 01:10 AM
guys are so not romantic. its so boring when guys go flat out, "i like you." ask her to go somewhere with you so you could be in a situation where you could just talk to her alone for a while. get kinda close next to herl. keep eye contact with her and try to tell her with your eyes how you feel. then just randomly tell her shes beautiful or has beautiful eyes or a beautiful smile or something. then you should come across a moment where neither one of you is talking and youre just kinda smiling to eachother and glance at her lips and into her eyes and back at her lips and keep doing this while moving closer and then just kiss her.
i'm pretty sure that would put across the message that you like her.

hotshots302
May 30th, 2007, 04:02 PM
just bite the bullet and tell her how much you like her. thats the easiest wy to do it. or you can always have a friend do it for you. =D

CryingEye666
May 30th, 2007, 05:06 PM
no dude
dont get a friend to do it for you
its too embarressing that way
a girl may want a guy that can handle asking her out, on his own, and not by using a friend

Gumleaf
May 30th, 2007, 06:38 PM
guys are so not romantic. its so boring when guys go flat out, "i like you." ask her to go somewhere with you so you could be in a situation where you could just talk to her alone for a while. get kinda close next to herl. keep eye contact with her and try to tell her with your eyes how you feel. then just randomly tell her shes beautiful or has beautiful eyes or a beautiful smile or something. then you should come across a moment where neither one of you is talking and youre just kinda smiling to eachother and glance at her lips and into her eyes and back at her lips and keep doing this while moving closer and then just kiss her.
i'm pretty sure that would put across the message that you like her.


wow, if only it was that simple and nice in reality. what happens if she doesn't like him back?

mynameisjane
May 31st, 2007, 01:04 AM
is it that much more embarassing to try to kiss her than to just tell her you like her? either way you express how you feel, only kissing her would mean more. and its not that hard to tell if a girl likes you. if you get really close to her and she backs away, then you know she doesnt like you.

mynameisjane
May 31st, 2007, 01:09 AM
i think it takes balls to just kiss a girl. guys are more attractive when they're confident and they pay enough attention to a girl to know that the girl likes them back.

CryingEye666
June 3rd, 2007, 10:06 PM
i think it takes balls to just kiss a girl. guys are more attractive when they're confident and they pay enough attention to a girl to know that the girl likes them back.



im not so positive about this,but one of my friends said that to some girls, when a guy like "cant get his words out" when talkin to a girl , is cute from the girls perspective because it makes her feel special? i dont know thats what my friend told me which does seem right actually.

Hyper
June 4th, 2007, 02:41 AM
im not so positive about this,but one of my friends said that to some girls, when a guy like "cant get his words out" when talkin to a girl , is cute from the girls perspective because it makes her feel special? i dont know thats what my friend told me which does seem right actually.

Confidence > Shy in most cases.. And being shy doesn't mean you have no confidence ugh so we could say

Confidence > Being scared to talk

Loner Girl6
June 4th, 2007, 08:39 PM
Personally I've always liked the blunt approach.If you like me tell.Simple.

CryingEye666
June 5th, 2007, 08:36 PM
everyones different =P