Extreme problem. ¬_¬

[TORAK]

I am crap at dating, well not dating really, because that's like going out to a fancy restaraunt and asking if you wan't "too come back for coffee", you know how it goes. My problem is that i have NO confidence...I'm crap, I hate myself. :(

I need help! Well, more advice. I'm Bi, but i'm on about confidance around gals. I'm rubbish at talking to new people face, especially girls, and ever more so, pretty girls. Even though I bascially think all girls are pretty. I pretty much ramble on like i'm doing now, and I get embarassed stupidly easily. So yeah, that's my story, and I hate it. D:

[Contra]

Normally what I tell to people who claim to have no confidence is to set small goals each day, in your case, concerning talking to girls and stuff, and complete them. That will give you a sense of satisfaction and help you boost your confidence.
Then, when talking to girls, you shouldn't worry too much about failing and about doing things right, if you remain calm and act normally it will all go right. There's no need to think it's going to go wrong, because that's the easiest way to get things wrong!

Good luck. :)

[Sage]

The only way you can get over your fear of talking to people is by talking to people.

[Kujiro]

Face your fears, take it a step at a time.
There's no much around this but to attempt it head on.

Avoiding would not help, it just creates a larger inconfidence and lowers your self esteem.
Gaining confidence is not going to happen over night, it takes time and preserverance.

It always helps if you have someone to be there and walk this path with you. I meant a good friend.

Good luck
*smile*

[AllThatIsLeft]

There really isn't anything to talking to girls. You are scaring yourself. Start with saying hi to them. Then evolve to small talk.

Take it step by step.

don't hate yourself, not everyone is born with social skills. Just keep trying and don't give up!!!