View Full Version : Jacking off with friend went wrong.
GeneralLee01
September 27th, 2011, 06:27 PM
Me and my friend was looking up porn, then I got a boner. I said I was gonna whip it out and jo. I thought he was cool with it and I thought he was gonna jo too. But he didnt, and I dont know if he just hasnt hit puberty and has a smaller penis or what... Tell me what you think... Btw/ Im str8.
BOSSPENGUIN
September 27th, 2011, 06:40 PM
if he has pubes or armpit hair he has. its possible if he hasnt he actually isnt mature enough to jack off or achieve orgasm. or he could have just been uncomfortable with the idea. there are many reasons to this these are most likely or the most common ones
awsomekid23
September 27th, 2011, 08:05 PM
maybe he was shy
Foamy
September 27th, 2011, 08:14 PM
It could have been too sudden for him and he tensed up. Or he didn't feel comfortable. Or he could be incapable of orgasm. Or.....there's more that it could be, too.
Jufjufjuf
September 27th, 2011, 09:34 PM
He might just not have wanted to j/o with you. Many people find it to be gay to do so, even if you are straight. Like I don't find it gay but I'd never do it. I'm straight too.
Unlucky_Leprechaun
September 27th, 2011, 10:18 PM
There are a lot of reasons why he backed off. Depending on how close you 2 are is the first... if you aren't real close then he didn't feel comfortable...he may not have been ready... (kinda a big jump for most of us). Give him some time and then just sorta ask him what it was and see if you can get a good answer...being able to talk about the issue will be a good thing int he long run.
ImCoolBeans
September 27th, 2011, 10:21 PM
He was most likely just shy, its a touchy subject with friends and he might have been a little uneasy/intimidated.
Voldemort
September 27th, 2011, 10:23 PM
maybe hes not ready for that stuff yet or maybe hes shy...
zeekm94
September 28th, 2011, 01:27 AM
hes probably just nervous about it
DerBear
September 28th, 2011, 01:28 AM
maybe he just did not want to do it
spoke
September 28th, 2011, 07:08 PM
as others said there could be a lot of reasons. my guess is he may not have been ready to do something like that. not everyone is. just be cool about it with him.
Joe1996
September 29th, 2011, 02:13 PM
Maybe, he's really 'strongly' straight. And doesn't want to do anything which could be considered gay. I know a few people like that.
Trinity_15
October 3rd, 2011, 09:36 AM
if he has pubes or armpit hair he has. its possible if he hasnt he actually isnt mature enough to jack off or achieve orgasm. or he could have just been uncomfortable with the idea. there are many reasons to this these are most likely or the most common ones
good point
this happened to me aswell... i thought he wouldv'e joined me
short boy big
October 3rd, 2011, 09:46 AM
Yea there could be many reasons, if u are considering doing something like this again i recommending talking about it first to make sure he is comfortable with the idea.
holdendeman
October 3rd, 2011, 10:45 PM
He's probably uncomfortable...
John.Smith
October 3rd, 2011, 11:06 PM
prob to scared of doing it
Aries
October 3rd, 2011, 11:22 PM
There are plenty of reasons why he may not have. He may have felt cornered and was uncomfortable with it, he may not have actually been horny, maybe he felt inadequate...
Have you talked to him about it?
jockeyboy97
October 4th, 2011, 12:04 AM
Yeah he was probably shy and not ready to join in with you. My first time I JO with an older friend I was scared and embarrassed and afraid we would get caught. Give him some time to work up to it.
Rusty101
October 4th, 2011, 05:31 AM
Well, thefes a couple of reasons
He may be uncomfortable with the idea
He may not be able to climax
He may not know how to JO
You may not have known him that long.
Me (bi-sexual), and about 7 other of my mates (2 gay, rest straight) have regular, "wank rings" as we call em and this is just what i've noticed :)
jacob_1995
October 4th, 2011, 05:00 PM
he was probably just too shy to do this around you and he felt uncomfortable with the idea.
Boxerbriefs96
October 4th, 2011, 06:34 PM
Many reasons why he didnt. Mabye he was uncomfortable with it, unlike you :). YOu never said his age..the reason I say that is because he might have not started puberty.
SportsNutChase
October 4th, 2011, 06:44 PM
IDK, not a good idea in my for me. wow my friends would have kicked my ass
nznews
October 5th, 2011, 02:57 PM
me and my friend did in 1day he ejaculated so i did
BOSS
October 5th, 2011, 03:05 PM
I'm sure if he's anything like me then he aint gonna do notin NOTIN!! I'm sure he's just shy. I wouldn't push him into doing something that he doesn't want to do.
Nicky97
October 5th, 2011, 04:01 PM
This "went wrong"? You started it, you thought this, you thought that.
You were wrong. Don't make it into something when it's nothing. That would be worse. Act like it never happened, and just cross him off the list of guys to invite to the next circle-jerk. :lol:
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