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Spock
September 26th, 2011, 10:36 PM
Ok so for the past 12 years(we r 15) my best friend(girl) have been together (as friends)for countless hours we do a lot together but my dilama is i think i love her but not sure a few weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend and she did her boyfriend now on facebook there is a sim game and she added me in a relationship with her. Now thats not my problem i like her but no sure if she likes me iam goingnto DC this week and i was going to pick her up something nice to ask her with but do u guys think i should?? Or do u think we should just remain friends?
Dack
September 26th, 2011, 10:40 PM
I think it's more of your decision, you shouldn't come here to ask us what to choose. If you think you'll ruin your friendship, then no, i wouldn't even try it, but hey, you're friend regardless, as long as you dont get her $300 jewelry or anything it'd be a nice gesture for a friend.

If you get hints that she's into you, then it would be a good idea to ask her about it, see how she feels about it, THEN make a decision.
Contra
September 27th, 2011, 09:25 AM
Well, from what you've told us, I don't think those are enough signs to tell if she likes you too. You could buy her something nice (not too expensive though, like Cailean said) and then let time go by and check if she drops any hints, you don't want to ruin your friendship when you're not completely sure about her feelings.
ImCoolBeans
September 27th, 2011, 10:09 PM
As said, get her a souvenir. Its a nice gesture, but I don't think that you should make your decision so hastily. She may see it as you want her to be your "rebound girl" and that won't make her feel good. Wait until you're more sure about how she feels towards you, then base it off of that :) Good luck!
Dabigdtc
September 30th, 2011, 07:40 PM
As said, get her a souvenir. Its a nice gesture, but I don't think that you should make your decision so hastily. She may see it as you want her to be your "rebound girl" and that won't make her feel good. Wait until you're more sure about how she feels towards you, then base it off of that :) Good luck!

yeah but she also just broke up with her boyfreind also
Eclipsical
October 1st, 2011, 06:11 PM
go for it.
Spock
October 1st, 2011, 06:27 PM
yeah but she also just broke up with her boyfreind also

yeah but they were never actually together if that makes sense
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Beast977
October 1st, 2011, 06:45 PM
Do what you feel like doing but Don't sell to much money if you don't know if she like u. Just buy are a nice souvenir. P.S. I been to D.C. and it's nice . you have to wacth out for people that want to sell stuff that brokes and if you look around you could get her so thing half way deen or some thing. Joy your self on the trip :)