Are You Serious????

[HAWAiiAN 808]

ok, i got a pretty big problem here that i need some help on. So on saturday night, i was at a birthday party / house party for one of my super close friends that i knew since basically pre-school. So it was around 8pm when he told a few of us to go with him to the bus stop about a minute from his house. So as we were walking, he whispered to me that he was going to get a girl (We'll call her Jessica) that was coming. After he said her name, i remembered she had a boyfriend with someone who is also a good friend of mine. I asked him if the boyfriend (we'll name him Micah) knew she was coming, and he told me no because he said that if the boyfriend knew she was coming to his house, he knew she was going to do something. After a few hours passed of everyone drinking and having a good time, a lot of people noticed an Integra kept on passing by the house really slow for about 5 minutes. After i walked out next to the fence, i noticed that it was my friend Micah driving. I ran out of the fence and ran down to his car as he was going to pull a U-turn to come back around. I opened his passenger door and shook his hand. I asked him what he was doing, and why dont he just come hang out with everyone, but then i remembered his girlfriend is there with my friend. He said that someone texted him that his girlfriend was going to hook up with my friend and he wanted to make sure she wasnt at the party. After a few minutes of talking, he decided to leave and i went back to the house. Then at around 1am, a lot of people started to leave, and maybe 10 of us were going to sleep over because a lot of us were kinda drunk and 3 of us lived a few miles away. We started to put the tables away and start to head into the house when my friend called me aside and said if i could make sure no one went into his room during the night. As i was about to ask him why, i noticed Jessica was still there. After i seen her, i knew exactly what he meant. So around 2am, everyone was in the house. Everyone was getting the blankets and pillows set up in the living room, while i was in the shower. As i was taking a shower, my friend came in and said that he was going to basically fuck Jessica in his room. I kinda knew he was going to and she wanted to, but i told him to just think about it because i know if Micah found out, he would fight my friend, and then probably fight me for letting this happen while i knew. So after i got done in the shower, i walked into the living room and noticed all the boys were in a circle talking. As i sat down, 2 of my friends asked if me my friend and Jessica were going to hook up. I tried to play it off by changing the subject, but everyone already knew. After a while, some of the people passed out, and only 4 of us were still awake watching tv and just relaxing. Then we all seen my friend come out of his room, go into the kitchen, grab napkins, then walk back into his room. Then he came back out, and decided to hang out with us for a quick minute. As he sat down, i just looked at him (we have been friends for so long that he already knew what i was about to ask him), and he nodded his head as a yes. He told us that while him and Jessica were "hanging out", Micah called her and she hung up on him. He then went back into the room, and everyone kinda passed out. When we woke up around 8am, a lot of us woke up to Jessica talking on the phone to Micah. After a while, i went onto facebook to see that Micah posted "Wow, she answers the phone, then hangs up on me. WTF is going on?". After we all ate breakfast, i told everyone goodbye, and then had to drop off my friend who lived down the street from me.

Sorry for the long post, but this is getting super serious now and i dont know what to do. My question to everyone is do i tell Micah what happened, or do i just keep quite and not say anything? I know if i tell Micah what happened, he will be super pissed of and will want to fight my friend. But i know that if i dont tell him, he will eventually find out from somebody and he will get pissed at my friend and me since i knew about it the whole time.

[mxiii]

wow! amazingly long =D
anyways, IMHO, i think you should ask Jessica or your friend to tell MIcah herself/himself/themself is they wants to . You shouldn't interfere with this kind of things especially if it could spoil someone's relationship badly.
And you shouldn't worry much. If worst comes to worst, you might be the only one who is capable of making things right.
Anyways all this is my personal view.
Good luck though.
hope my opinion helps you abit in making the right choice
Kudos =D

[cpr97]

wow uhm i would say you needa talk to jessica bout this n get her to tell her bf bout what happened n if she says she wont then try tellin her that if she doesnt then your gonna have to cuz its really buggin you bad knowin what happened n it bein kept a secret also never know he may already know n just be dealin with it in his own way but either way i think you should talk to micah n let him know that fightin your friend you or jessica isnt the right way to solve the problem it will only be a temporary fix but imho i think your friend who "hooked up" with jessica that night isnt a very trustable friend to micah n knowin that id have a hard time trustin him if you have/get a gf he did it to 1 friend he will prolly do it again or to others thats not somethin a friend does to a friend drunk or not thats like the silent bro code its just kinda fucked up
anyways micah deserves to know somethin happened maybe you could even tell him your pretty sure somethin happened but not sure exactly what n tell him you didnt say anythin to him that night in the car cuz you knew it would cause a big fight n you knew that wouldnt be good... but either way he should know n if your as close to him as you sound you im sure feel the same way put yourself in micahs shoes you would want to know or have your friend tell you if he knew right?
either way i hope it works out for you n everyone else good luck
every negative has a positive- seems to me that micah will see this as a negative but the positive will be when he realizes now he cant trust her which is better to learn sooner then later...