My dilemma

[Cybercode]

Choice 1: Go out with her, form a relationship, stay here in Florida for college.

Choice 2: Move on, Graduate, move out to DC, get a house, a job, go to college and rebuild my life there.

[anonymous53]

Well you haven't described your situation. I'd say move on. Honestly, you can't let anyone stop you from pursuing your dreams.

[ImCoolBeans]

Pursue you're dreams, there will be girls wherever you go. Don't let her hold you back.

[StoppingTime]

I'd say go start anew. If she's meant for you, you'll find her again.

[Contra]

I think that you shouldn't base your decisions on a relationship that could end right on the first year of college. So I'd say move on, there are plenty of other girls out there.

[SilentKillah]

Depends on how much she means to you. If she means everything to yah, you should stay, if shes just another girl, then go start a new life. Just depends on how you feel bout her.

[kyle95]

If you're thinking about her then do something about it. It's not as if she's oblivious to your existence. Go out with her and make a go of it - together! You'll have your ups and downs but there's nothing better than someone to weather storms with. Changing cities doesn't change anything, you'll face this dilemma wherever you are, so why not with this girl and in familiar territory?

[Blind]

If you feel that relationship is worth it then stay where you are. However pursue your dreams and starting life over would be the best option. Im sure you will meet another girl. But really it's whatever makes you happy and whatever makes you feel good.

[mark15]

do what u want or follow ur dream lol

[Kujiro]

You question is vague and it's too open ended for advise.
It's just giving us choices to pick to our a preference.

Weight the pros and cons to each decision, look at things always in a wider picture. If she is a supportive girlfriend she would be there to aid you through these decisions.

If she is nothing but a stranger then I would go for choice 2.
But what's more important is not what she wants, is what you want for yourself.

Do not be too focused on what's I front of you that you missed the opportunities which come way ahead.
This applies to either of the choices.
In life it's not always about making the best choices, but makes the best of the choices made.


Good luck
*smile*

[Sterling26]

1st choice

[botwa]

moving on seems to be the only right decision to me.
but then lots of movies where boy and girl were separated and were meant for each other but never got together again appear in my mind...
screw the second thought. go on.

[Cybercode]

1st choice

moving on seems to be the only right decision to me.
but then lots of movies where boy and girl were separated and were meant for each other but never got together again appear in my mind...
screw the second thought. go on.

This was a month ago, I got rejected, I moved on. Therefore I have no need for this thread anymore.

EDIT: and trust me with the movie thing. i kept thinking she would come back and say yes after all. i kept that mindset through out the rest of the week after she rejected me. but i knew deep down that she hates me and doesn't want anything to do with me.

[Ambrosia]

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