im shy, but any help would be greatly appreciated :)

[piggy-wiggy]

im kinda nervous about this, and this guy that im sorta 'friends with benifits', to put it best, hes asked to finger me, but im really nervous about it. because during the summer, a really drunk guy i was with one night, forced himself on me, like left me with pretty bad bruises and everything, and im still pretty shuck up from that.
but i really like this guy, and i want to be okay for at least a finger.. like thats the least i can do for him, because its kinda a long distance thing. but im nervous about everything, expecially do i shave or not? like i dont want him being like, 'eww'? whereas that other guy didnt care about me, not to mind down there..... anyhelp would be great :)

[AmusedDJ]

if he hurt you he might be abusive again, just sayin

[piggy-wiggy]

oh sorry, theres two guys, my bad...

[Dimitri]

Personally I think you should do this only if you think you can handle it. YOU DO NOT NEED to let him do anything to you.

Explain to him what happened, if he cares as much about you as much as you do about him then he can wait. You need some time to heal in my opinion.

[Mattattack]

I say let em do it if you're up to it. And as for the shaving part all guys like it different so you should ask him.

[piggy-wiggy]

Thanks, i think i'm gona tell him ive to wait :)

[Matt0952]

It pains me to hear you went through something like that. Dudes with no respect piss me off. Anyway, I think if you like him you should let him, he would be super happy. Here's my advice: don't make it awkward, at least trim, and have fun.

[mrbigred]

Just don't let him do anything with