Drank to much

[Jupiter13]

I felt like cutting again but I'm trying to quit....so I grabed a wine bottle. My meds make the affects of acohol work faster. Let's just say I got alil to drunk and I confessed all my feelings to my best friend. I slept it off but I woke up hungover and re read all my text........ How can I ever face him again...........:confused:

[ShatteredGlass]

If he's really you're friend not only will you be able to face him but you and him will reach a new level of trust and understanding. You cant help the way you feel only how you respond to those feelings. Dont be ashamed and dont be embarrassed. If he reacts negatively then you know what kind of friend he really is and some times knowing the character of people, even when its so hard, in the long run is less painful than finding out through another hurt or betrayal. Let us know what happens

[bambino]

i think poster above me is right.
i always do ridiculous things when I'm drunk but you live and learn. Theres a point to stop drinking when you're somewhere between tipsy and drunk. You know what you're doing and you still have some concept of consequences. Also, less of a hang over the next day.

hopefully it will bring you closer, and he will understand. Dont be hard on yourself.

[Amaryllis]

Honey, I can't promise you that he'll understand or say the right things. But if he's your friend, he will care. He may say something you don't wanna hear. But at least you'll have someone. You won't be alone anymore. Sometimes it's better to tell someone. Who knows, they might have a similar problem. Dealing with it alone is a lot harder. A burden shared is a burden divided.

Love,
Faith and Trust

[jacknife]

ShatteredGlass said it already, if he's a real friend he'll support you. And, if not, then at least you know and can move on. It might be painful, but you'll be ok.

For what it's worth I confessed many things to one of my friends one time and cried a lot, right in front of her. She was nice and all, but she honestly didn't know how to handle what I was telling her. It probably scared her a bit! So if your friend seems nervous or quiet or anything, don't assume it's because he's mean! Just let him know you didn't want to scare him, but that you just wanted someone to talk to.

Keep us updated on what happens. All the best! :)

[Jupiter13]

Well..... It turned out fine.... he wasn't mad or freaked out...but know he feels like all the pain I'm in is his fault......greeeeeeeat

[ShatteredGlass]

Hey! Dont move from one problem to the next and neglect the good things in between. Everything turned out fine! Thats great! So if you told him your innermost thoughts and feelings and everything was fine then explain to him that your choices are your own and that he shouldnt think your cutting is his fault. Just be honest with him, thats the only route you oughta take now