How Is This Possible?

[lovefashion]

I dated my ex boyfriend for about 7 months. We were juniors in high school and he loved me so much. Even guys said he did, and then he broke up with me giving me no reason and I miss him. Not only as a boyfriend but as a best friend.
I know feel VERY depressed. I go out, but I pretty much feel that way all the time
-I'm lonely because he was almost everything
-I feel that I wasn't good/pretty enough
-I hate my brown eyes and am trying to change my eye color
-I can't do anything to make him even pay attention to me in school/class

What would you do? Advice from anyone would be helpful

I also fear he likes this girl in our grade, and she has awesome blue eyes and I can't believe he could drop me so fast. how do you think he could do this so easily?

I miss him so much

[Ambrosia]

In all honesty, everything that goes down must go up ---at some point---. There is always a rock bottom and everything always seems horrible in the beginning. I went through this same predicament here a few weeks ago. My boyfriend of about six months had me break up with him (He wouldn't do it so I had to because he WANTED to!).

The thing is that you need to pause for a second. Take a deep breath, relax, and let the anger out enough for you to feel a little at ease. And then---think. Think about the relationship. Were there any signs, did you two ever have problems that could have made him think it was better off without? Once you get some sort of an idea of why than you can start to feel a little bit better.

You may feel like dying now but there is no need for death. Something like this will surely pass, I can guarantee it. Everything happens for a reason (Even wars and cancer!). You will find someone ten million times better.

Do not try and change your eye color. Why would you do that? I bet your eyes are gorgeous the way they are, whether they be brown, green, blue, whatever! All women are gorgeous creatures whether we agree or not. He was with you for six months, wasn't he? He didn't break up with you "because you're not pretty". That's a one in a trillion chance. And you are definitely not in that statistic! Never. Ever. Put yourself down like that. No matter how ugly you think you are you -aren't-. Don't try to change yourself for a boy. It's silly and will never work. You're gorgeous as you ARE, not as you (or anyone else, for that matter) claim you SHOULD look.

You're an amazing person, I bet. And you are still so damn young! You're a JUNIOR IN HIGH SCHOOL, for heavens sake! By the time you get into college you are going to have so many boys falling over you that you will be needing a stick to beat them off! You're too young to get tied down anyways. So keep it simple.

Move on, keep smiling, and don't let him see you down. If you do you'll make yourself seem desperate. It's much more attractive to see a girl living her life for herself, not someone else.

[AmusedDJ]

the admin pretty much summed it up right there

[lovefashion]

I just can't get over him, no matter what I do. And my best friend likes him and is starting to ignore me. I also have a class with him and he is talking to a new girl right in front of me. I feel so alone, and it hurts.

[anonymous53]

Guys are assholes. It's a general rule. Alright, people are cold and heartless.

You just need time to get over him, you'll find someone better.

[Slytherin_Prince]

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't worry, you'll get through this, and you'll be stronger than ever. If he dumped you like that, you deserve much better.

Most sincerely,
Robert.

[mark15]

u have to move on thrust me is better move on and dont look back