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Redrocket
September 21st, 2011, 11:29 PM
i have brain stormed a perfect plan to get a gf
1. get your lady friend to text your target if she will meet her at the mall/park/etc/whatever you choose/
2. if she says yes then go to the location make sure to bring flowers or a gift or her favorite candy with you
3. if your target asks why did you get me to come here text your ladyfriend to stall her
4. show up and hold the flowers candy or gift behind your back
5. then give them to her
6. talk to her and make her laugh if shes impressed you have you chance brother go get her

AmusedDJ
September 22nd, 2011, 12:28 AM
hell its worth a shot

Sage
September 22nd, 2011, 12:40 AM
That's anything but fool-proof. Kiddo, whether you like it or not, a lot of girls just aren't going to be into you regardless of what you do.

Redrocket
September 22nd, 2011, 01:56 AM
well at least i tried

DerBear
September 22nd, 2011, 01:56 AM
Sorry but girls dont fall for guys that easy

Blind
September 22nd, 2011, 02:08 PM
Sorry but this wont always get you the girl sure might think it's cute that you made an effort but that wont make her fall for you but wooing with gifts isnt always the best way to get a girl. It's the feelings of both people and whats in side not the gifts.

Ambrosia
September 22nd, 2011, 02:29 PM
This sounds like something out of a show. That isn't how real life works, sadly (And much to my own dismay).

To get a girlfriend why don't you start by NOT referring to females as "Targets"? We are people too.

Become friends with them first. THAT Is a good plan.

Strength
September 23rd, 2011, 11:23 AM
Sorry but girls dont fall for guys that easy

hahahaha you are so wrong my friend. :yeah:

Sage
September 23rd, 2011, 12:21 PM
hahahaha you are so wrong my friend. :yeah:

That's an incredibly misogynistic way of looking at women.

Kujiro
September 23rd, 2011, 12:48 PM
i have brain stormed a perfect plan to get a gf
1. get your lady friend to text your target if she will meet her at the mall/park/etc/whatever you choose/
2. if she says yes then go to the location make sure to bring flowers or a gift or her favorite candy with you
3. if your target asks why did you get me to come here text your ladyfriend to stall her
4. show up and hold the flowers candy or gift behind your back
5. then give them to her
6. talk to her and make her laugh if shes impressed you have you chance brother go get her

Is this a script from a korean drama?

I believe there is no perfect plan to get a gf, as much as there is no perfect person in the world.

If the ultimate aim is to get hit on with someone, its going to take more than 6 steps, and management of instances which seem to enjoy happening at the wrong place and time.

Being honest and yourself seems to be a better approach, getting to know her better, establishing a stable friendship would score you a better chance compared to something that dramatical.
As friendship grows, you would see what she is looking out for in a relatiobship, and at the same time, understanding you better.
Its basically a process of upsizing each other and knowing where each is coming from.

Being romantic is one thing, but being pratical is another. And if such a relationship is to happen, it would likely be a fluke.

There are no shortcuts, its just a concoction of patience, perseverance, sincerity and a little luck.

Good luck
*smile*

Efflorescence
September 23rd, 2011, 02:50 PM
i have brain stormed a perfect plan to get a gf
1. get your lady friend to text your target if she will meet her at the mall/park/etc/whatever you choose/
2. if she says yes then go to the location make sure to bring flowers or a gift or her favorite candy with you
3. if your target asks why did you get me to come here text your ladyfriend to stall her
4. show up and hold the flowers candy or gift behind your back
5. then give them to her
6. talk to her and make her laugh if shes impressed you have you chance brother go get her

Well, I hope that the 'gf' in question is not someone like me........that's all I can say....

hahahaha you are so wrong my friend. :yeah:

YOU're wrong. You're very wrong in fact. What do you think? That all women are desperate and will fall for every guy that is ready to give them some attention? In my 17 years of existence, I've seen and experienced plans similar to this. AND THEY FAIL. Sorry.

OptimusPrime
September 23rd, 2011, 03:42 PM
I prefer Fraiser, And Seinfield.

But good try.

Kaius
September 23rd, 2011, 03:47 PM
I agree with Jeremy. Theres no perfect plan to get a girlfriend and getting together is part of the story, do you really want to be the guy that uses the same thing with every girl? Its going to make you look bad. It won't make them feel too special if you're using the same routine with every girl you date lol

Angel Androgynous
September 23rd, 2011, 06:44 PM
Your plan is so cheesy and why do you think that you can win a girl over with material things? If she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you. That's it. If a guy I am not attracted to in any way, shape, or form, tried to win me over with flowers and chocolates, he would fail.... I HATE it when guys think that girls love that shit. NOT ALL GIRLS THINK THE SAME. NOT ALL GIRLS LIKE THE SAME THINGS. If a guy who has been there for me, whom I admire, and who I am attracted to asked me out with no stupid attempts like that, I would go out with him instead.

Eclipsical
September 23rd, 2011, 06:47 PM
It's a perfect, fool plan for an epic fail.

dmeek7
September 25th, 2011, 12:13 AM
This sounds like something out of a show. That isn't how real life works, sadly (And much to my own dismay).

To get a girlfriend why don't you start by NOT referring to females as "Targets"? We are people too.

Become friends with them first. THAT Is a good plan.

If a guy becomes friends with a girl that's all he ever will be though.. Do we really need to become friends with a girl first is we want to date them? If we become friends then there is the "friend zone" and then guys can never get out of that.

BOSSPENGUIN
September 25th, 2011, 12:31 AM
you have to get to know the girl first this is something you can do after you have known her for awhile and you know she likes you and you want to go further. also many men as myself are afraid of regection because rumours can be spread its not fun. theres a girl i like and ik she likes me but im trying to get to know her better so at school on monday im going to ask for her number text her for awhile and see how it goes. then you can alternate your idea a bit and it should work

Dack
September 25th, 2011, 12:46 AM
All of the people who have posted here are wise, you should listen to them. It would seem a bit set up if you "suddenly" showed up with gifts and no prior knowledge of her presence at the mall. That would A: be extremely creepy; and B: it won't help you one bit.

ImCoolBeans
September 25th, 2011, 02:02 PM
If it were only that simple lol

Bath
September 25th, 2011, 02:29 PM
If a guy did this to me I would just be like wtf.

ImCoolBeans
September 25th, 2011, 03:06 PM
If a guy did this to me I would just be like wtf.

I was thinking that, If i were to do this to a girl i think she'd be more creeped out than impressed.

User Deleted
September 25th, 2011, 03:13 PM
Better plan: Be yourself and you will find someone who likes you for you.

In other words just be yourself, talk to new people, get to know them especially is you like their personality or share interests.
If you get into a very strong friendship you then make the risky choice of dating. Because when you break up things will get real awkward. You wont date for all of your high school years, so break ups are likely.

Seriously? I cant believe people go through all this shit to be someone they are not. Which will surely end up in the shattering of a relationship that was never meant to be.

On addition I can find little reason to be in a particular relationship that other than to not be lonely.

Blind
September 25th, 2011, 03:18 PM
The best way to get a GF is

Talk to a girl you like
Get to know her
Become friends
maybe things will go further

Girls are not objects and should not be called objects life doesnt work like the movies life is life and reality plans like these dont always work.

Weeping
September 25th, 2011, 03:30 PM
Sorry, but have you watched to many movies about that kinda stuff? Back to reality.

If a guy would do something like that to me, I would probably be waaay more creeped out or something than impressed.

boyman25
September 28th, 2011, 05:02 PM
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just have your "lady friend" (LOL) set you up with someone. dont do all that