Mastubation = Fear... and Questions

[that one guy]

ok, so I am kind of like afraid to do it. Like, for one, I am like afraid of how its gonna feel. Yes, I know you all think this is absurd but just bare with me. Could someone please explain the orgasm part? like what it feels like and what it is. (I have already read the other thread similar to this question) all I know is it is a bodily sensation that you get once you masturbate. Like can you stop it etc? and once you cum how do you stop it from coming out. The only time I have cummed before is in my sleep and a few drips once I get to the bathroom in the morning. Another thing is I don't even know if I can masturbate. Like I am still going through puberty but my cum is whitish so I dunno? This is all a bit confuzing and scary for me so if I could get quite a few people's opinions and answers this would really help me out. thankyou.:confused: :confused: :confused:

[dannyley]

well dont be afraid its normal natural and healthy
it will feel good, orgasmic energy is one of the brst there is
an orgasm is when the spirm is relesed from the scrotum and it travels through the shaft and out the other end.
U can stop masterbaing anytime, but once u rech orgasm there is no stopping the ejaculation.
white sperm is a good thing

hopethis helps, anymore questions PM me

[MoveAlong]

Ohmygosh, the orgasm hurts like hell!

Just kidding. An orgasm is sort of a huge surge that just makes you want to moan. Sometimes, it's so good that your hairs stand up and you get goosebumps! Masturbation is a VERY common, almost everyone does it. By the time you die, you would of masturbated, or jacked off, once!

When you start masturbating, you can stop, but it takes awhile to orgasm. You should NOT stop the orgasm though! It's a very natural thing. NEVER stop the cum from coming out!! This is really bad and may damage some weird tubes in ur dick 0_o

Your cum should be white. That's the color of developed semen. Underdeveloped semen isn't fully there, but will change to white over the years.

For alot of tips and tricks, or just the regular way to masturbate, visit http://www.jackinworld.com/ , a site just for guys about masturbation!

[that one guy]

more responses plz...

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

u will find that it can be hard for people to describe an orgasm for u. basiclaly, its a full body sensation, u become extremely relaxed for a period of time, and....u just feel amazing, its different than any other feeling. when u orgasm, once ur at the point in puberty where u can, you'll ejaculate, or release semen. semen is a mix of fluids from ur prostate that gets mixed w/ sperm that come out of the testicles (balls) in ur scrotum (sac). some people let out alot of semen, some people let out a very little ammount. the ammount let out will be greater as u get farther and farther into puberty because ur testicles will produce more sperm. it will not just keep coming out. when u orgasm, you'll ejaculate and then depedning on the ammount u let out, you'll stop ejaculating within about a second ranging to a few seconds. dont worry if u just have semen dribbling out or if it seems to "shoot" out, both are completely normal. ur semen being whitish means there's sperm in there, thats a good sign :) masturbation is a COMPLETELY NORMAL AND HEALTHY ACTIVITY. studies show that somewhere in the 90-98% of teenage males masturbate so dont feel weird. just keep it in private or with close friends if u feel like doing so, its not allowed to masturbate in public but im sure ur aware of that. i find that masturbation is a great stress releiver and studies are showing now that masturbation MAY help reduce chances of developing prostate cancer later in life but u need not worry about that at allnow. just have fun experiencing with urself about masturbation, its alot of fun :D

[that one guy]

so like I am thinking I might do it when home alone later on but I am still hesitant. how do I know I will reach orgasm? I am 14 btw.

[Aηdy]

If you have had a wet dream (which you have) You will be able to orgasm, and trust me you will know when it happens. And it is impossible to stop an orgasm once it started, but trust me, you wont want it to stop!!

[ThatCanadianGuy]

It's been confirmed that babies have reached orgasm! They obviously don't know what they are doing and obviously don't ejaculate. Just keep doin what feels good, and remember to speed up when you feel like you're gonna cum; and trust me, you'll know when you're cumming!

Oh yeah and you HAVE TO go to www.jackinworld.com (http://www.jackinworld.com) like the other guy said. It even has an article for first-timers that I think someone hesistant like you needs to take a look at. I can PM you the link to the exact article if you want just post in here again.

BTW the link (and the entire site, for that matter) is purely informative and educational. So don't worry about any porn or stuff like that. I believe there are some pictures but not of real people (art sketches to help readers understand the stuff explained in the article).

Sorry for double posting I can't seem to fix it or delete my post below.

BTW the link (and the entire site, for that matter) is purely informative and educational. So don't worry about any porn or stuff like that. I believe there are some pictures but not of real people (art sketches to help readers understand the stuff explained in the article).

[that one guy]

thanks everyone I plan to do it for the 1st time tonight. tell you how that goes. ;)

[dannyley]

okies, have fun and enjoy

[that one guy]

ok so I didnt =/ it took me for ever to finally get turned on. but I didnt go through with it. I mean nothing was happening so...I just quit I guess...advice?

[MoveAlong]

ok so I didnt =/ it took me for ever to finally get turned on. but I didnt go through with it. I mean nothing was happening so...I just quit I guess...advice?

Did you get an erection? Did you actually jack and jack until you came?

[that one guy]

no I was erect but I didnt go any farther than that =/

[ThatCanadianGuy]

But now you know what to do right? I'm guessin you just weren't in the mood or YOU'RE REALLY CLUELESS! (lol jk)

[DestroyTheFuture]

you can jack off and reach orgasm any time you have a boner.


just do it dude. and if you need it, PM me for my screen name and i can help you through it a little bit. i might be able to give you better advice about it than some other people in this topic.

[MoveAlong]

no I was erect but I didnt go any farther than that =/
You gotta go further than that! :D Don't be frightened, intimidated or nervious...it's a new experience, and if you start and orgasm, you'll be doing it again!!

Here's an article on jackinworld about masturbation.
http://www.jackinworld.com/howto/ht3.html#anchor1910306
This can tell you lots of things such as about fantasies, that you need to concentrate (don't play PS2 while you masturbate), lubrication, how fast to pump, and how tightly to grip!


And if that doesn't work, here's a rough how-to:

Don't let anybody see you. Do this at night or something, where you're alone such as in the bathroom. Maybe watch some porn. Get a stiffy, hard on, basically make your penis hard. You can do that by rubbing it, fantisising (two guys kissing (sorry my first choice :P), two girls kissing, or a guy and a girl kissing, them having sex...) or watch porn.
Now grab your penis. Basically like you're holding a lever. Just tightly hold it enough to get a motion going. Now, go up and down instead of back and forth. Make the motion with you elbow - moving your entire arm from the shoulder won't do much!!
Keep going. This would feel good. Up and down...you can go on and on. At some point, it'll start feeling better and better that you want to go faster. Do that! Keep going, and then you'll get a sensation like you're gonna pee. Keep going man, don't let that warm, manly fluid stay in there! (if you body has matured enough to produce semen). Keep going until it comes out, or you feel a rush that is undescribable, something that you want to do again and again...


Try those, and come back ready to spill what happened ;-)

[Gumleaf]

try and get as relaxed as you can. the more you concentrate the harder it will be. just relax and stroke it. maybe think about a girl you might like or something like that when you do it. keep on strking it and it will gradually feel better and better and then finally you will orgasm. don't give up if you don't orgasm in a short time, you will eventually if you keep on going.

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

its ok if ur nervous at first, it may be kinda hard on u if everyone's talking about something amazing and you've never tried it but u can any time u want. take it slow, once u get erect (if it seems hard to do so, find some porn, it'l help) just like take hand of it but dont grab too hard. just go up and down slowly, you'll get the hang of it. eventually, if it feels like ur gonna piss really badly, thats good, that means ur gonna cum soon, keep goign. maybe you'll wana stop because the feeling is overwelming, but trust me, keep going. eventuallly u'll orgasm and you'll know what we're all talking about

[that one guy]

ok guys this really helps. :) um one more question. what comes first, ejaculation or orgasm? which should I expect soon, and how long does the orgasm-ejac. process last? well, I wont be home alone for quite a few days so...I dunno...you all have helped quite alot though so far. so thankyou.

[that one guy]

this would really help.

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

well, they both come basicallly at the same time, it might range from person to person but i find it isnt like u experience one and then the other comes 5 seconds later. U'll probaly find that just as ur about to ejaculate, u have this really built up feeling inside u, JUST being held back but thats about to let lose any second, that is ur orgasm about to happen. For me, it tends to be just as i ejaculate (semen comes out) the orgasm hits me, so maybe ejaculation occurs slightly before orgasm....idk, they happen basically the same time. Orgasm lasts anywehere from like 1 second to (ive heard other people's experiences) 4 seconds. if i had to wait to masturbate until my house was empty, id be an unhappy person. if u want to start experimenting, id say go into ur bathroom for a lil while when people are away from the bathroom. or if somebody's far from ur room/where the computer is, find some porn and just go at it, being aware of ur surroundings. LOL after years of doing this, i can hear where people are anywhere in my house so i know when and when not to jerk/do other stuff

[that one guy]

yeah I have become quite good at knowing when someone is coming upstairs...and where they are heading. I dunno I think I will wait for this week when I willbe home alone like all day. :) LOL

[theonetheycallbob]

Go for it. Masturbation = :) :) :)
And don't worry pretty much anyone can do it! Wether your done with puberty or not!!!!

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Yeah let us know if you have any further concerns or problems after you have that "alone time all day" at the end of the week. I for one have quite a few more suggestions for different situations, as do the other guys in the thread!

Have fun!!

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[that one guy]

what do you mean by situation suggestions??? I would like to know what you mean. :)

[ThatCanadianGuy]

If you're still having problems but for different reasons (don't know how to get stimulated enough etc.) or any other problems or questions about different aspects of masturbation (techniques etc.).

[Antares]

my one thing is just to KEEP GOING DONT STOP FOR ANYTHING and also technically you have to orgasm before you ejaculate. and orgasm times differ among males

[ThatCanadianGuy]

my one thing is just to KEEP GOING DONT STOP FOR ANYTHING and also technically you have to orgasm before you ejaculate. and orgasm times differ among males


Exactly! I don't know about that other guy that posted (about ejaculating before orgasm); but I thought that almost every guy orgasms and THEN ejaculates. By the way it's not gonna come flowing out like pee, and certainly not as much will come out compared to how much you "pee" regularly. About a teaspoonful to a tablespoonful are around average for you to be ejaculating. If it's less, then you'll just have to wait for your body to mature a little bit more.

Hang in there mate!

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

the ammount that u ejaculate varies. Some people (like me) masturbate much more frequently than others, so the volume of each ejaculation is probably less than others. other people let out alot. also, yea human males need to orgasm to ejaculate, but the timing can be different for different people

[Antares]

yeah keep us updated
your like our little baby finally taking off his training wheels and walking into the wonderful joy of masterbation and manhood or jackinhood (whatever you want)
sry just had to say that

[WEO]

ok.

You dont have to be alone to do it. just go to the bathroom close the door and stand/crouch over the toilet let your cum shoot into the toilet. You orgasm at the same time u cum. To get a erection just think of girls/sex etc. When u get the boner/erection keep thinking of girls etc. then start rubbin ur dick(put ur hand around ur dick then rub up and down quickly...DONT STOP!). U will feel the cum coming up ur dick after a while(almost like when u piss, but not really the same)

Just do it man!! Dont worry about being alone. Just do it somewhere private.

When u have finaly done it you will understand all of this!!

GL! :P

[Mirataku]

We can only show you the door, you have to walk through it

[Aηdy]

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