What do you think (Aimed at Gay/Bi)

[Wheatley]

Recently, I've discovered another disadvantage in my life because I came out so soon, this is that you see many people performing potentially gay actions to other boys, but because they say they are straight, they get away with it just fine.

However, if I was to do something like that to someone, it would be really tabo and everyone would have a problem and say its disgusting, and I can't say I'm straight coz I have been out before (regardless of whether you go back in again or not)

What do you think?

Also, in case its a little unclear why it should be in this forum, its because usually kids our age do these potentially gay actions because they are comparing themselves with eachothet and seeing how far their body is different to their partners (hense puberty)

[Jon Doe 401]

Edit.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

It does appear that way, however, it is mostly innocent and I'm sure that most of the straight guys do not even think about it in terms of the way you and I think about it...it just happens. Being out I'm sure has its disadvantages and only a few know about me and it will stay that way in HS.

[Wheatley]

I can't actually think of any advantages of being out though tbh.
The things I hate most is being treated differently to other peopl, that and everyone making fun and avoidibg you if they are immature.

Also though, its alright to do it to your friends but I mean other people comment negatively on it.
For example, yesturday in IT sitting down at my station, I saw two "lads" (as I think they are called nowadays) were rubbing and giving eachother maasages. I mean there's no getting qway from it, that is potientqlly gay actions. If I did that in publif to anyone else it would go qround achool and make me look really bad. Even worse if I got caught doing that in a more private place