questions about sexuality...

[Koffing]

1. I think I'm gay. I like boys very much. but the problem is, that I like almost every body i see... When i see a boy, I immediately think how it would be to jerk him off and how it would be to have a relation with him... :(
It this strange :confused:

2. Also, i thought I was gay, but now I start to have crushes on both girls and boys... it really annoys me :( Does this mean I'm changing to be bi now?

3. And I have never had personality of beeing gay. Cause everybody is saying that gays can communicate very good with girls. But I really can't. The second thing is that I like cars, racing, and other manly sports. I like to play football and other sports like that... Is this strange for a gay/bi person?

Sorry for all the questions and thanks for answering in advance ;)

[humanesquire]

The only thing that is 100 percent gay is attraction to the same sex. Nothing else signifies that a person is gay. Plenty of straight men do things like nurse, cook, and teach, but that doesn't make them feminine. There are plenty of nonheteros that love sports, whether they're watching or playing. Justbecause yoj don't fit the cultural stereotype doesn't mean you should freak out. If you like guys, you like guys. If you like girls, you like girls. If you like both, you like both. Love is love, no matter who it's between.

[JayJaySpiritus]

1. Its not strange at all.. its curiousity & it happens to all of us. you feel this way simple because your finding your sexuality (& all the worries/sad faces tell me Your either scared or confused) either way try not to over think about it.

2. while changing sexually from guys to girls can happen. it may annoy you but in the end you cant help who you like.. you could still bew gay or still pondering you sexuality & exploring both sides.

3. I believe being gay doesnt posess certain personalities.. your who you are.. you march to the beat of your own drum & see life your own way.. you like cars? so do I. I'm Bi/Gay.. You cant comunicate well with girls? because you may have less experience than other.. I'm great with the girls cause i grew up in a family of them as the only boy.. you like footy? i like soccer & Basketball.. even play them & footy occasionly.. like I said these things dont dicktate weither your a typical gay?bi guy ~ you march to the beat of your own drum

[Levi scott]

As for the first question it's normal your just curious and what not about all that jazz nothin to worry about, don't let It stress ya, and for the second one i think everyone has thoughts about the opposite gender everyonce in a while, I have before and I'm gay lol. And as for the third I full blown gay and I like cars, they are my Passion lol and I play spots occasionally to. You are who you are you do what you want to do and don't let social tags bother you :)

[Koffing]

thank you so much! I'm feeling well better now :D

[LuckyLuke]

1. I think I'm gay. I like boys very much. but the problem is, that I like almost every body i see... When i see a boy, I immediately think how it would be to jerk him off and how it would be to have a relation with him... :(
It this strange :confused:

2. Also, i thought I was gay, but now I start to have crushes on both girls and boys... it really annoys me :( Does this mean I'm changing to be bi now?

3. And I have never had personality of beeing gay. Cause everybody is saying that gays can communicate very good with girls. But I really can't. The second thing is that I like cars, racing, and other manly sports. I like to play football and other sports like that... Is this strange for a gay/bi person?

Sorry for all the questions and thanks for answering in advance ;)


1- Absolutely normal teenage feelings... it'd be unusual for you not to see people who you find attractive in a sexual light.

2- I've found that my tastes change over time... let your body settle itself out and just go along for the ride until you're sure. I didn't know until I was 17 that I was absolutely straight.

3- NO TRAITS MAKE SOMEONE GAY, except for finding men phyiscally and emotionally attractive. I love fashion, most of my friends are girls, and I know little about cars and sports.. but I'm straight.

[prob1996]

1. I think I'm gay. I like boys very much. but the problem is, that I like almost every body i see... When i see a boy, I immediately think how it would be to jerk him off and how it would be to have a relation with him... :(
It this strange :confused:

2. Also, i thought I was gay, but now I start to have crushes on both girls and boys... it really annoys me :( Does this mean I'm changing to be bi now?

3. And I have never had personality of beeing gay. Cause everybody is saying that gays can communicate very good with girls. But I really can't. The second thing is that I like cars, racing, and other manly sports. I like to play football and other sports like that... Is this strange for a gay/bi person?

Sorry for all the questions and thanks for answering in advance ;)


1) Nope completely normal. Hormones at work. Don't feel bad about it

2) Don't worry sooo much about labels. people are so eager to say that they are this and they are that. I thought I was bi and now I finally figured out that I'm gay. Then again I"m only 15 so who knows it may change yet. just go with it and relax. You like whatever it is you like.

3) all just sterotypes. I"m gay and play sports, I like some fashion but not not that into. You are who are and that's ok.

Hope this helps buddy!!!!