Am i

[Furrybaby202]

First I would like to say thank you for taking your time to read this.

I'm 13 and about to turn 14 and suddenly After 4 years of being a porn addict it's harder for girls to turn me on. Straight porn although gets me off no problem. (I'm worried its because of the man involved) Anyways I've also have found my self staring at one or two men because there so good looking. I don't think sexual thoughts. But my mom said something about it now sometimes when i see a man i think gay thoughts and there intrusive and unwanted. Lastly mans Penises and testicles give me an erection recently. I've had crushes on girls since I was 5. Am I gay.

[Koffing]

You are gay if you like boys both emotionally and sexually. it sound that you only like boys sexually. I think you are just a bit curious. And if, when you are older, like boys emotionally as well, I think you'll be bi cause you like girls as well ;)

[Kiss]

You're only 13, give it time and you'll find out eventually.

[Furrybaby202]

Well if im gay i will be killing myself because i dont want to fuck and date men my whole life gooooooodbye

[Donkey]

Well if im gay i will be killing myself because i dont want to fuck and date men my whole life gooooooodbye
That's a very immature attitude to take.

You're not gay if you are not attracted to men on an emotional or romantic level. That is that.

[Short Circuit]

So you look at porn, and seeing an erect penis in the film turns you on?

Is that not what porn films are supposed to do? I get turned on by seeing a guy having sex on film, I even wish I was that man! Well actually, I wish I was the size of the man in the film lol

Why would you assume your gay just because of that?

I give my male friends man hugs every day, there is a group of 6 of us that regularly jerk off together, that does not make us gay, it makes us teens!

I will be 14 in November, same age as you, but that does not mean I dont look at other boys packages when getting showered, or even going hard when others in the shower are hard. It does not make me gay

[redmann]

Ok. I have two words for you. Calm. Down. Seriously just scolling throught this list of threads you have many threads on the same exact thing. Your not going to get different answers if you post the same thing over and over.
Ok and now to your question. You dont need to decide now! Your thirteen! And i know you probably dont like people telling you that but its true! Your young and its not a problem that you dont really know what you are. Give it 5 years maybe. I think it would be very beneficial to just put this out of your head and just live your life the way you want to. I promise things will work out. just dont try to label yourself yet. Give it some time then think about it. Also i would advize to stop watching porn. It might be confusing you and its not very good for your mental health anyway. Hope i helped:-)

[Weeping]

Ehrm.. You're 13. You may be turned on by anything sexual at this point.
And if you turn out being gay/bi, just accept it, there's nothing wrong with it.

[awsomekid23]

its your hormones dont worry only your heart will know wat u want

[jake0_o]

i dont think you are. its probably just hormones. boys your age look around at men all the time

[nameless12]

your not gay, dont worry about it. you say you get turned on but you dont have emotional feelings sooo, your not gay and even if you did had emotional feelings for men, you would be bi... still, you dont have to be thinking about the big old labels you know, plus your 13, anything can happen ;)