what do you think...?

[camilo96]

ok so well, i im about to turn 15. i have a neighborhood friend and he is 12. he and i have known each-other like for ever. his parents completely trust me. anyways, anytime we go out to ride bikes, or walk whatever, he asked me like about puberty, sex and stuff. i feel kinda awkward giving this info to a kid like 3 or 4 years younger that m, but i feel like he SHOULD know it. today he admitted to getting a boner, but he had no idea what it was. what do you guys think, should i keep giving him answers an stuff, introduce him to porn, maybe even tell him how to j/o ? i feel confused

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[artist2894]

Well, around that age, talking to guy friends a little older than yourself is the best way to get answers. I think you should keep talking to him about it, if he/you wants. He might not have any friends to who he can talk to about this kind of stuff. May as well take him under your wing, haha.

[Erikhbd]

Tell him everything. You're both lucky to have each other.

Go somewhere private pull down yours and his pants (if he wants) and show him porn then teach him how to masturbate right.

Again if that's what he wants. A kid shouldn't have to figure it out alone.

[casanova98]

i think you should, i never had anyone to talk to when i was going through that, it wouldve been nice if i did

[camilo96]

thanks guys, i feel allot better now. but iim still worried about the age diff.....

[Rawr207]

Well we all have to learn so how hahaha and its sometimes really awkward talking to our parents and theres slangs and stuff that our parents dont even know.

[Wheatley]

Age shouldn't matter, as long as he is asking for information and that you don't do anything you haven't qgreed to, then its perfectly fine.

[Rawrmuncher]

Help him out and answer his questions. I had to find everything out myself, my brother doesn't like me that much, and I'm not asking my parents. Haha.

And about his age, it doesn't matter. He's seeking help with someone older. :L

[Asd20]

Tell him everything. You're both lucky to have each other.

Go somewhere private pull down yours and his pants (if he wants) and show him porn then teach him how to masturbate right.

Again if that's what he wants. A kid shouldn't have to figure it out alone.

keep doing it but dont give more info than u think he needs and dont be too aggressive like this person said

[dmac0327]

Tell him everything. You're both lucky to have each other.

Go somewhere private pull down yours and his pants (if he wants) and show him porn then teach him how to masturbate right.

Again if that's what he wants. A kid shouldn't have to figure it out alone.


I agree. He is asking you because you are the only one he can trust.and age doesn't matter he is only a couple years younger. Its not like he's 10.

[Tonebone88]

I have a neighbor that's almost 4 years younger than me that has asked me some of the same questions and I told him the answers for one reason: when I was that age, I didnt feel comfortable talking to my dad and wanted an older friend so I could ask questions. I had to figure things out by myself, but I don't think he should have to. I think once he turns 12 or 13, I'll teach him how to jerk off.

[Electra Heart]

Go ahead, it's good you trust eachother

[Mattattack]

Keep talking to him. Tell him what s boner Is lol

[camilo96]

thanks , yea you guys are right. he actually told me i was like a big brother to him :D isint that cool?

[zeekm94]

i would keep talking to him but don't do anything sexual with him you can explain what masturbation is but don't actually do it with him because of the age difference

[Short Circuit]

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Go somewhere private pull down yours and his pants

The either wait for the police to arrive, or the kids dad to beat you up!

Sorry, but that was the worst bit of advice I have seen on here.

IMHO, it would be alright to TALK to him about it but not to SHOW him how to do things. I talk with a 17 year old about sex, but would never ask him to show me stuff.

[ugaboy]

Yes talk to him, and answer any questions that you can. It is cool that he trusts you to ask the questions.

[jvballer]

IMHO, it would be alright to TALK to him about it but not to SHOW him how to do things. I talk with a 17 year old about sex, but would never ask him to show me stuff.

ya don't actually show him anything right now but its ok to talk to him about that stuff so he has an idea of what's going on

[Wheatley]

Yeah, just remember you are a trusted friend. Not a dad or a teacher, therefore, if he asks you anything, you don't have to answer if you don't want to (but likely you will) and if he asks to aee yours dont be afraid, do it aslong as you are comfortable aswell. But its not recommended to go somewhere private and strip eqchother....unless he wants to

[Short Circuit]

Even if he wanted to, you should not do it!

I am sure the majority of boys on here have played the game, "you show me yours, I will show you mine", but with boys of their own age group. It could be interperated a different way if your doing this with boys 3 or 4 years YOUNGER than yourself.

If he feels the need to "see" older boys, just direct him to some choice web pages, that way you should not get in trouble.

[samb12]

it never hurts to tell some one natural things that happen to their body and what to do with them

[KarkatLuv]

No kid likes awkward situations and i think your being a good older brother sort of figure by you doing this. Yes introduce him to porn and yes pull down yours and his pants and undies and show him how to wank. (just when his parents catch him tell him to not tell them you told him)

EDIT: Went a little overboard there!

[acurasrock]

You could talk to him about it, It shouldn't be a big deal. I wouldn't go as far as showing him how to j/o though. Point him to jackinworld or something like that, they have techniques and stuff. But yea, I don't like to talk to younger friends about sex stuff, that's why they have parents.

[the beast]

Advise him but do it in an apropriate manner

[Teencuriosity]

i think you should hes gona figure it out anyway so why not be the one to tell him

[Boxerbriefs96]

Keep giving him info and answer his Q's, but no porn. His parents would NOT LIKE THAT. He can figure that out by himself in couple of years when he is ready for that.

[Wheatley]

^ this is true, especially if he getd caught he might blame you

[Joe1996]

You should carry on talking to him, he's not going to say anything to anyone, so nobody will know.
It's a very good opportunity for him

[The cool]

I think u should answer as much as u can and if he wants to see it then show him, I asked a friend to show me and it was the best

[BOSSPENGUIN]

i think its good. but give answers to the general not HJ and BJ. give him the right info like sexual intercourse is fine and natural and tell him about boners. he gets em he should know about ik it seems weird but try to answer it he most likely wont ask him parent cause he is to nervous

[CWteen]

yea man i would, i mean when i was his age i had no one to talk to and was lost concerning that stuff

[CWteen]

i would try to help the kid out with his questions but not do anything or show him . i mean when i was his age i was lost concerning that stuff and wished i had someone to talk to about it

[FameMonster]

I'll add to pretty much what everyone else said. I would answer his questions, because it seems he really trusts you and looks up to you. And at that age, I definitely did not feel comfortable talking to an adult about questions like those. Just answer his questions honestly and factually. Don't tell stories or like Mike said above, dont go into detail about HJ's and BJ's or even sex; he'll figure that out soon enough on his own and I would think he'll have sexEd in school soon too. Just reassure him it's ok to get boners, have feelings, and its OK to j/o, but thats something you do in private. Showing him is definitely going too far, even if he asks you to show him. He is still a few years younger than you. Good luck.

[Green Arrow]

I would of loved to have someone teach me how to do it... I had to learn myself :P

[mark15]

tell him im sure he ask you cause thrust you