Find it really hard to connect to girls..

[Kelasta]

I am female myself btw. :3

Ever since I met my boyfriend, bearing in mind this is about waay back early February, I've found it really hard to connect to girls.

I dno wether it's 'cause I feel awkward when hugging them or what not, but i feel as if they don't understand as much, now i'm not as close to any of my friends as I ever used to be, which kind of sucks, as they are good friends.

But now i've been talking to more boys, their so much easier to connect with and to talk to about problems etc.

Does anyone else feel like this to any gender?
I'd really like to be able to connect with my friends a bit better, anyone got any ideas on how?

Thanks. :yeah:

[Rawrgasm]

hmm, did you do anything wrong to your friends for them to do this?

[Kujiro]

I'm not too sure, but since you have met your boyfriend, it's possible that you may have neglected them some way or another, hence this drifted the friendship apart.

Studies have hypothesized that getting into a relationship, you risk losing 2 of your closest friends.
It jolly be that rift which causes a mutual breakdown in communication and some form of unspoken trust.

As you mentioned it happened in febuary, which means for the past 7 months, the bonds were on a decline.
They may have met new friends to have replaced your absence.

You did not mention any major disagreements, nor conflicts but from how you displayed, it's sad to say good friends has degenerated to normal friends.

But I'm alittle confused where you were able to relay to guys more. Would you be able to further elaborate?

But as of what it seems if there be any intention to repair, it would take more effort, time and nutruring then it once took to build.

Good luck
*smile*

[Eclipsical]

I'm the opposite..

I generally don't get along with other guys unless they are gay. Most of my friends are girls. I am straight so in theory it doesnt make sense..lol

[anonymous53]

I'm the same way, I can't connect to guys at all. So all of my friends are females. I don't mind this though.

[Syvelocin]

Yes. But I'm gay, so I really don't have that issue with girls. :P I just can't connect with most guys. And it's more than just the trusting and being emotionally scarred. I feel the opposite, the typical guy I've come to know doesn't get a thing I say. I have ex-boyfriends that are almost as close to me as my mum is. But I have exactly two who are like that, the rest are either too mad at me or it just still feels awkward to be around them. And those guys are mostly idiots anyway...