I need some help :)

[CuriousO_oDude]

Ok, so I'm not sure how to approach this, but let's try...

I'm 16, and I am not sure if I'm bi or not.. Girls still turn me on, but lately I've wanted to experiment with a guy..:confused:

So 1st-- Is that normal?? Will that make me gay??:confused::what:

And 2nd-- If the above is normal and not gay, how do I get my friend over to experiment?:P;)

Please, serious comments only, and thanks in advance to everyone who helps:cool: :)

[humanesquire]

Wanting to experiment does not mean that you are gay or bisexual. Nothing can make or turn you gay. Wanting to experiment is exactly that, not some awful, freakish thing. You're not unusual with this.

[CuriousO_oDude]

Thanks for the post Humanesquire, helped me out.. Do you know how to sorta initiate the whole experimenting?

Thanks

[acurasrock]

Totally normal feelings man, no doubt. I had one of my first j/o with a bud experiences this summer, was real late at night, swimming with a friend in my pool playing leapfrog he kept accidentally banging his junk against back of my head in pool. We got out, changed in same room, I saw his cock said nice one bro. He said he didn't jack off today, I said me neither, we laid there strokin ourselves, then he reached over!! Helps if your watchin porn together too. Ya will feel awkward, then look at each other, and wham it just happens.

[CuriousO_oDude]

Cool, thanks Acurasrock :)

[CuriousO_oDude]

So any ideas on how to get the guy over to experiment?

[acurasrock]

How about inviting a friend that you think might be curious as well, for a sleepover. Usually a friend yah can trust, a close friend. Wouldn't want to just meet someone off the street, yanno? I have 4 friends from HS that we J/O together, its just to bust, no love, feelings (well maybe for a second, haha). Invite him over to play video games, and stay up real late, ask him what kind of porn he likes to watch real late, and you'll be jackin b4 yano it

[CuriousO_oDude]

Thanks man, I kinda started 'working on it' lol, he seems into sleeping over, so I guess I'll try that.. Thanks dude

[nameless12]

pfffffff, thats extreamly normal :P but the "HOW to" part, thats a bit more difficult to answer. i think you should just carry the conversation towards the curiosity things and keep asking and telling and askin and who knows what can happen :) though it is really difficult, good luck mate ;)

[Carlyle]

Its normal for EVERYONE during puberty to want to experiment with the same sex, and it does not necessarily make you bi. It really depends on how attracted you are to both genders.

[Erikhbd]

If you want to experiment, watch porn with him alone in a basement or somewhere he'll feel 100% safe. Then whip your dick out and jerk off. Casually encourage him to do the same. It'll be easy to go from there. If he's willing to jerk off with you he'll probably go further. I'd suggest trying to jerk him off next. Maybe that would be a separate time altogether.

[ben.o]

I would say your just curious, not gay.

For the experimenting, i would invite them over for a sleepover and play truth or dare, or watch porn with them and start jacking off in front of them and they would most likley follow, and if they do just go from there. :)