Former Friend

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

I'm no longer talking to this girl I use to be friends with (Some people might remember me mentioning Kayree). I had always stuck by her side no matter what she did. I stuck with her when she put me down, when she was crying, and even when she was the reason I was cutting. She use to call me 'Emo' as a joke, even though she knew nothing of me cutting. Anyway, I got accepted into this school I really wanted to go to a few months back, and she started becoming horrible. One day, she took her comments a little too far, to the point where I told her to STFU. We got into this fight where I finally told her everything she made me feel in the last two years, while she backfired eith hoe I'm not so innocent and that I'm mean too. I told her I never said I was innocent, and I know I'm mean, but I at least apologize for my actions..blah blah bla.

Anyway, she then started telling people that I cursed her out to the point of tears, (she wasn't even crying at all!) My friend backed me up by telling people it wasn't true since she was there. I eventually left the school about two weeks later, but we never fully made up because i had just given up on her. I was only being civil to her so that I didn't have to deal with drama for a little bit. After I left, she slammed my family and then told people we were going to hang out during the weekend and go see a movie (never happened, becaus ei wanted nothing to do with her)

I started ignoring her in June, and she's been bugging me since. A few weeks ago, she asked me what she did wrong for me to ignore her, and I was just astounded by that question. I ignored it though. She wonders what she did wrong, yet she's STILL going around telling people that the last few weeks I attended her school I was calling her names.

I feel so stupid that I didn't listen to my I intuition. The 'friendship' I had with her has taught me so many lessons, so atleast that came out of all the drama I had to go through for most of middle school.

Sorry just ranting...

[Carlyle]

No need to apologize for ranting. its better for you than letting that build up inside.. It is good that you learned something from the friendship, though its a pain when they have to end. Sorry that she was spreading rumors about you.

[Contra]

It's good to vent about these type of situations, I feel sympathy for you, I hate when people lie and are hypocrites.
Anyway, I hope you keep ignoring her, because honestly, a "friend" like her is not worth your time.

[Kujiro]

In all honestly, this girl is a waste of time.
Its awesome that you have given up on her, and it does seem to me she is somewhat using you as a spam sponge. Someone whom she can bitch about, and not retaliate.

Perhaps whatever she was doing was to aid her gain in popularity, not that i see any reason for doing so.
Its quite tough to say that her comments aren't affecting you, but if we look on the brighter side, there is really no such thing as negative publicity.

But leaving that as that, you should continue ignoring her, and in time hoping for the very best she would just give up.
Take what happened as an experience, afterall what does not kill you, eventually makes you a stronger and wiser person.

Good luck
*smile*