It happened again.

[screamtobeheard]

I knew it. I knew this was going to happen. My boyfriend has two friends. Stacy and Mitch. They were engaged. And he was going into the military. I knew it. I fucking KNEW it. He died. I FUCKING KNEW HE WAS GOING TO DIE. I HATE THIS I HATE MYSELF FOR THIS. What is wrong with me?! Why can't I tell anyone before these things happen?!

[The_Narwhal]

Listen, whatever has happend is not your fault. If you think about it there is no actual way a person could know that another person was going to die. It was most certanly just a worry, thats all. Whatever happend is not your fault. If you think about it, we all worry about anybody we care about that is going into active military service.

So remember, it is not your fault. Also if it makes you feel better, remember he was serving his country at the time. He was a great man.

It was not your fault.

[Jupiter]

Like he said above, this was not yourself. It's war, and people die. That's probably why you saw it...

[StoppingTime]

I knew it. I knew this was going to happen. My boyfriend has two friends. Stacy and Mitch. They were engaged. And he was going into the military. I knew it. I fucking KNEW it. He died. I FUCKING KNEW HE WAS GOING TO DIE. I HATE THIS I HATE MYSELF FOR THIS. What is wrong with me?! Why can't I tell anyone before these things happen?!

This, of course, is not your fault. Don't blame yourself for it, you did nothing wrong. You could argue about saying how you didn't talk him out of it, but in the end, it wouldn't have mattered. He would have done what he felt was the right thing to do. It was his choice, and it was what e wanted to do. Don't blame yourself, it could lead to horrible things.

[Fiction]

You can't blame yourself for this. Even if you'd said to them that you think he's going to die, do you think it would have changed his mind to join the military? He knew when he entered, they both knew, that there was a chance it was going to happen. This is not your fault.