I need answers

[Furrybaby202]

I'm 13 almost 14 and have been a major porn user since 10. Recently I have found my attraction for women to have decreased meaning its harder to get an erection now. I usually don't get one unless I'm really horny. Now I get an erection from a man's penis or testicles. The reasons I doubt I'm gay is because I've had crushes on girl since I was 5. Please help. I don't want to be gay and have sex with men.

[sdude]

at 13 you get hard under all kinds of situations, but the porn may just have become boring to you...it doesn't mean much, but enjoy what makes u horny, things will work out in time. as far was "wanting" not to be gay?? You really won't have any choice...and it isn't a curse, it's just who you are...or, maybe u aren't!

[Furrybaby202]

I dont want to be gay because then you have to have sex with men and thats nasty plus I want to have my own biological kids its always been my dream.

[sdude]

And somehow it isn't "nasty" to have sex with women??I think you are quickly heading towards the homophobe closet...

[Triste]

It isn't like every little thing is going to get you aroused, dude. Also, you shouldn't really be worrying about whether your gay or not just because you don't get a bone from every girl who passes by you on the street. If having sex with men is that unappealing to you then obviously you might not be gay.

[Furrybaby202]

What are you saying

[Cybercode]

bro, i learned the hard way that the internet can be a very cruel place, and when you say stuff like "I dont want to be gay because then you have to have sex with men and thats nasty..." and "I don't want to be gay and have sex with men." can be very offensive to the LGBT people. I'm just trying to protect you man.

As for the porn issue, the porn is just getting boring and you're getting curious. I went through a little curious stage before.

[Erikhbd]

You're bored. New is exciting.

[Skyhawk]

At your age, and by what you said, raging hormones is very plausible.

[Furrybaby202]

So what you guys are saying is IM not gay

[Erikhbd]

Correct. Not gay. Promise. But if you hang out at a barber shop long enough youll eventually get a haircut. If you indulge in gay thoughts and activities long enough you may be one down the road.

[Skyhawk]

If you indulge in gay thoughts and activities long enough you may be one down the road.
...

You don't become gay.

OP:No, you aren't gay, it's just hormones. Ignore the portion I quoted above.

[logan fields]

if your 13 and gay why would you have to have sex with men or anyone really if you didnt want to? men are way older and maybe you would meet someone your age that you like.

[Kujiro]

I'm 13 almost 14 and have been a major porn user since 10. Recently I have found my attraction for women to have decreased meaning its harder to get an erection now. I usually don't get one unless I'm really horny. Now I get an erection from a man's penis or testicles. The reasons I doubt I'm gay is because I've had crushes on girl since I was 5. Please help. I don't want to be gay and have sex with men.

Firstly, just having a sexual attraction to a male's genitalia, does not necessarily label your sexuality.
Homosexuality is not a matter of choice, if you are, you are.
You have to consider the emotional aspect as well.
It's stereotypical thinking which leads to having sex with the same gender is gay.
What about having sex with women, but in love with guys then?

As you have mentioned for the past 3-4 years you are a major porn user, which means what you are basically watching the same movies with a few jumbled actors and actresses for 4 years.

It's normal to find the excitement level on decreasing, somewhat equates to the law of diminishing marginal utility.
Where the satisfaction level falls below 0 it becomes dissatisfaction.

When you mentioned that a man's penis give you an erection? But dont you see that in straight porn as well?

Pornography is just a matter of preference, and I've mentioned in no way it determines sexuality.

Good luck
*smile*

[CuriousO_oDude]

Ok, so.. Right now, you probably aren't gay (i.e.-- you aren't gay OR you don't know that you are gay/bi)

Like Erikhbd states, if you indulge too much, you could end up as gay/bi
(most probably bi- 'cause you won't have bum sex with em :P)