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Tonebone88
September 18th, 2011, 12:48 PM
So I went to my neighbor's house yesterday and he told me to just bring a swimsuit in case we went swimming. So eventually we decided to go for a swim so we went upstairs into his room. He told me we could just both change there so we did and I didn't think much about it. I don't have any problem with him seeing me and I don't think its a bog deal to see him. The only problem is that he's 11 and I'm 15. Does the fact that he h probably hasn't started puberty and I'm almost done make it wrong that we changed together? It wouldn't be a big deal if he was my cousin but he's not and I'm not sure what his parents would think if they found out.
Donkey
September 18th, 2011, 12:50 PM
if it's not sexual, there's no problem in my books. I doubt his parents would care. Guys get changed around each other all the time bro
IanNE
September 18th, 2011, 02:10 PM
no its not a big deal
BaNd
September 18th, 2011, 02:12 PM
no as long as you dont do anything sexual you should be ok
Carlyle
September 18th, 2011, 02:17 PM
Pretty much what everyone else said.. It wasn't sexual in any way, so you're both fine.
hhhfiuashfosihdf
September 18th, 2011, 03:07 PM
No its fine. Its like getting changed for sports at school
Boxerbriefs96
September 18th, 2011, 03:50 PM
You are probably not done with puberty, unless you are really quick about progressing in life. Umm that has nothing to do with the question (what I said) but guys change all the time in the presence of each other (think the locker room). and it was not sexual so who cares?
senior.2013
September 18th, 2011, 04:23 PM
I dont see how it would be a big deal... It wasnt sexual so you should be fine
artist2894
September 18th, 2011, 04:29 PM
There's nothing wrong with it. Plus, you're not done with puberty until your 20s.
AlvinMario
September 18th, 2011, 04:54 PM
No problem I think
Electra Heart
September 18th, 2011, 04:54 PM
It's fine. Why would his parents care?
alphus
September 18th, 2011, 05:12 PM
Aslong as you keep it strictly unsexual you'll be fine :)
Asd20
September 18th, 2011, 05:37 PM
locker rooms at public places have like 60 year olds and that is considered normal so why isnt it normal to change with someone 4 years younger
spartanrob
September 18th, 2011, 09:07 PM
No different than changing at the YMCA to go swimming. The fact that he asked you to change with him maybe means that he is curious about puberty and what is starting to happen to him??
Tonebone88
September 18th, 2011, 09:19 PM
No different than changing at the YMCA to go swimming. The fact that he asked you to change with him maybe means that he is curious about puberty and what is starting to happen to him??
That's a good point. I suppose he might have been curious to see but afraid to ask his parents about it. I always thought it would be too awkward to talk to my parents about puberty...
skypride
September 19th, 2011, 12:01 AM
As long as there was no touchy then everything is fine in my opinion.
logan fields
September 19th, 2011, 09:53 PM
when i got to a public pool we chnge with older kids all the time so whats the difference really? i mean you didn't do anything except change clothes so whats wrong with that?
Jstr
September 19th, 2011, 10:02 PM
Agree with all the others :)
dwl8fl
September 19th, 2011, 10:58 PM
I see know big deal with that
acurasrock
September 20th, 2011, 01:51 PM
No problem, just so long as you were only changing, a glance or 2 is harmless, us boys tend to check each others stuff out, no biggy.
Michigan48111
September 20th, 2011, 05:41 PM
I think it's cool and don't see any problems with it.
smartass722
September 20th, 2011, 06:45 PM
i see no problem
tomcolly
September 20th, 2011, 06:56 PM
yep don't worry about it as long as it goes no further than just changing/looking.
dmac0327
September 20th, 2011, 08:32 PM
So I went to my neighbor's house yesterday and he told me to just bring a swimsuit in case we went swimming. So eventually we decided to go for a swim so we went upstairs into his room. He told me we could just both change there so we did and I didn't think much about it. I don't have any problem with him seeing me and I don't think its a bog deal to see him. The only problem is that he's 11 and I'm 15. Does the fact that he h probably hasn't started puberty and I'm almost done make it wrong that we changed together? It wouldn't be a big deal if he was my cousin but he's not and I'm not sure what his parents would think if they found out.
I wouldn't say that it is bad unless you wanted to do something sexual with him.and that wouldn't be bad either if he wanted to also.
MalditoDia
September 20th, 2011, 10:39 PM
no, thats not a big deal.
tyler17OKC
September 20th, 2011, 10:42 PM
Theres nothing wrong with changing with each other.
SeanM1997
September 20th, 2011, 11:15 PM
no its not bad. when i was 11 or so me and my neighbor(14 at the time) changed together in HER room. we stood naked and looked at eachother for like a min. then we got into our swimsuits and that was that
Luke91
September 22nd, 2011, 08:06 PM
There are younger boys at the Y all the time changing and taking showers. I see no problem with What you did at all.
BandGeek
September 22nd, 2011, 08:47 PM
It's not like you each have something different.Like everyone else said,as long you just changed,it's fine.
KarkatLuv
September 23rd, 2011, 06:32 AM
no big deal, it would only be a problem if you did something with him or to him
Erikhbd
September 23rd, 2011, 06:37 AM
No harm no foul
Short Circuit
September 23rd, 2011, 06:56 AM
Dont see what the problem is, you were only getting changed. If it stays that way, OK, but ...................
Teencuriosity
September 24th, 2011, 12:44 AM
its nt wrong your bestfriends so your pretty much brothers
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