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gothboy
April 4th, 2007, 09:01 AM
hi all yeah im new, about 5-6 months ago i got really angry at the girlfriend and i punched through a thin glass window in my bathroom and i cut myself pretty sevearly and i stoped to look at my hand, it was coverd in blood it was running down my arm and such...since then i had a facination with blood(sexually) im pretty sure this is kinda messed up and all but i enjoy the taste smell and feel of blood an resort to self harm to get it. its nothing overly bad like i dont dig a razour into my wrist i use a sterile knife and cut alone the groves in my palm. but lately the facination is getting worse and i want to cut more and more what do i do to stop it the only thing i got atm is selfcontroll

girlygirl
April 4th, 2007, 12:29 PM
hiya i used to self harm and then i stopped i know it sounds lyk hard work but all u need to do is have strong mates by ur side and be strong and say no im not going to do it any more also when u normally spend time cutting u could find something else to pass the time

i hope this will help u if u ever need to chet just pm me ok xxx

Sapphire
April 11th, 2007, 02:12 PM
It is an addiction. Whether you are doing it as a way of coping or with sexual undertones it is still an addiction. I suppose you could always experiment with other forms of erotica etc to lessen your addiction.

I'm sorry I haven't been helpful, just not entirely sure how best to help.

*lynn*
April 12th, 2007, 02:19 PM
i would try and talk to somebody that can help you professionally. ggod luck!

BillyWitchDoctor.com
April 12th, 2007, 07:04 PM
it sounds like if u find somehting sexually pleasing, its gonna be hard to quit. u just need to ram it in ur head that what ur doing isnt exactly a healthy form of sexual pleaseure. try and find other forms (there's always masturbation) but remembe to keep them healthy. ur gonna have to discapline urself, whenever u have the urge to cut ur palm to draw blood, remember that ur cutting at the very bodily system (ur skin) that protects u. remember that ur just harming urself, id also recommend telling a friend that is VERY CLOSE. think hard and find a friend that u know wouldnt judge u and would realize that u want help but its hard. be honset with them and they'll be able to help, you'll be able to talk to them whenever u feel like u "need" to cut ur hand and draw blood