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Scotfiddle
September 18th, 2011, 12:05 AM
Hi everyone, there is a girl I met over 2 years ago at school who I became friends with and ended up having a huge crush on. That crush went on for a really long time but I never had the guts to tell her. I told close friends ( male and female) that I liked her and I know that atleast two of them told her how I felt, but I never told her myself. Then almost a year ago, after atleast a month of flirting back and forth, I was ready to tell her that I had feelings for her and ask her out. I was convinced our feelings were mutual because of how much time we spent together talking and hanging out at school. Then on the day I was going to tell her, I was informed that she was going out with someone else (a rude and ignorant hockey player). This was a total surprise to not only me, but alot of other people because no one saw any signs that they were interested in one another. I was heartbroken. I had no drive to do anything. All i wanted to do was lock myself in my room and cry. That day is getting close to a year ago, and I have to say that I have gotten a bit better, but am still not back to normal. They are still going out and when ever I see them together I feel really sad. Can anyone help me?

Clawhammer
September 18th, 2011, 12:14 AM
Weather it out lad.
Stay away from those old pictures of her. Don't mind your friends telling you to talk to her, avoid her, you'll know when you're ready. Keep yourself busy, hang out with some close friends. Don't go looking for pity, and don't stalk her or start a fight with her new man. Just sit it out. It hurts. Not much you can do about that. But just keep going.