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Buster14ify
September 17th, 2011, 03:22 PM
Okay so my friends keep bugging me to go out with this girl that told them she like me. No matter how much i tell them i don't like her they won't leave me alone. The thing is they're the few of my friends that don't know that i'm gay. How do i get them to leave me alone without coming out to them?:what::what:

thecanjump
September 17th, 2011, 06:41 PM
Just keep telling them you aren't interested in her. That's all I can think of.


And just curious, why don't you want them to know?

Buster14ify
September 18th, 2011, 06:44 PM
Because they're very homophobic and the only ones i told are gay themselves

sdude
September 18th, 2011, 08:19 PM
Just keep telling them you aren't interested and tell them you are gay when u are ready!

logan fields
September 19th, 2011, 10:06 PM
hey jordan i dont like broccoli but that doesnt mean i dont like other vegetables. i mean just because you dont like this one girl doesnt mean that your gay right? besides tell your friends if they like her so much why dont they date her lol.

Kujiro
September 19th, 2011, 10:17 PM
There is actually nothing you can do, but either say you are not interested, and in hopes they would leave you alone to it after a bit, which its something that generally happens especially in school.

Or you may choose to come out to them.
But that would not be the first line of mitigation.
And as im sure you have observed, there is always much contemplation when it comes to comin out, although its encouraged to be done at the right times, to the right people.

Such things your friends are doing would come to pass, leave it as it is, be strong on your ground, and in due time they would generally get bored of it.

Good luck
*smile*

Short Circuit
September 20th, 2011, 12:41 AM
Just tell them YOU will decide who you go out with, and when.