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SportsNutChase
September 16th, 2011, 05:26 PM
I have a close friend that I think wants more than that. We have been close for years but I fond him trying to get even closer. Around more when im changing and even sneaking a look when I am. I havent said anything because I love the guy as a friend but I just want to know? how do I bring it up?

MalditoDia
September 16th, 2011, 05:31 PM
just make it a joke.

artist2894
September 16th, 2011, 06:35 PM
I had the same dilemma. I ended up being totally wrong and worrying over nothing. But, i just had a heart to heart chat with my friend and i brought it up by saying he was the best friend I ever could've had and waited for his response. He ended up saying that back to me, but then opened up about some girl he was head over heels for. He'd apparently been wanting to talk about it with me for a while, but hadn't gotten the chance. So all those vibes of him wanting to get "closer" to me were wrong, he just wanted to talk about something. So, if possible, try to have a heart to heart chat and see where that goes.

PerpetualMotionSquad
October 18th, 2011, 05:20 PM
Make a joke outta it

Trinity_15
October 18th, 2011, 07:28 PM
I say make it a joke

Neptune
October 18th, 2011, 08:12 PM
Just say ''I wanna date you.'' Just joking. Just make it a joke, like other posters have suggested.

senior.2013
October 18th, 2011, 08:15 PM
Again, jokes like everyone

SWMG
October 18th, 2011, 11:22 PM
Make it a joke or maybe you are over worrying

aussie.boy
October 19th, 2011, 05:31 AM
you should play truth or dare next time you have a sleepover, and start off with subtle things then progressively make dirtier dares ... once your dick starts getting involved see where he goes from there

Giles
October 19th, 2011, 08:09 AM
I actually don't think making it a joke is such a good idea, if he is genuinely interested in you and you don't feel the same way then making light of the situation is not the right thing to do at all. If anything then you need to just try and get him talking to you in a way that he feels comfortable and safe to say whatever he feels, how you do that is up to you.

moondream
October 19th, 2011, 08:14 AM
maybe hes just comfortable enough to look at u when changing and hes curious? just its a sensitive subject... so be sensitive about it.

Boxerbriefs96
October 19th, 2011, 04:25 PM
Well, the question is," do you like him back?" If you do want more, you have to find out if he does, and if he does, then go for it, if you do that is. Confusing right?

Ok, you could make a joke if he is a funny type person, or you could just ask him if the moment is right.

BaNd
October 19th, 2011, 06:30 PM
you should play truth or dare next time you have a sleepover, and start off with subtle things then progressively make dirtier dares ... once your dick starts getting involved see where he goes from there

i say go with this lol

parkpark
October 19th, 2011, 07:07 PM
if you catch him again doing it just
say " um can i help you" or " what are you doing"
if used both on 3 different people and it works fairly well
worse comes to worse just look up some phrase to use in this situation on the internet.... which is where i got those 2 when i need them lol