Kissing

[Short Circuit]

Hope this is in the correct place.

So my new girlfriend told me that I kiss like a child. I just purse my lips, and kiss. She told me to open my mouth, and I did, then she put her tongue in my mouth.

As I was not expecting this, I pulled back quickly, and said "Yewwww, what was that?" She told me thats how grown ups kiss.

So is this true, and if it is, do YOU use your tongue when kissing?

I personally find it disgusting.

[Jupiter]

I do whatever happens. It's usually the heat of the moment. I prefer regular kisses, but passionate ones.

[senior.2013]

Right, whatever feels right at the moment

[DerBear]

Have you ever watched a 13+ lol

No seriously thats what happens when you kiss someone depending on the level of intimacy at that momment.

Just go what feels right to you at that momment.

[Short Circuit]

Have you ever watched a 13+ lol

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I generally watch fantasy/adventure films, and kissing is not normally in them

[abear_1999]

sometimes tounge sometimes no

[prob1996]

the right kiss for the right time. I personally love the deep passionate ones. i sneak them in with the bf all the time. LOL

[Erikhbd]

Gotta use tongue. It's good practice for what they'll ask you to do later. ;)

[Xann]

tongue almost always :P

[kyleD]

im not gonna lie i don't really like tongue that much.

[DerBear]

I generally watch fantasy/adventure films, and kissing is not normally in them

Well you need to understand that you are too young to maybe be in this kind of relationship give it a year or 2 then re-think

[Kaius]

You're 13, it doesn't really surprise me that you're bad at kissing. I don't expect you've had much practice but once you're a bit older and you've had more experience you'll be fine. You've gotta learn somewhere :P

[vtRED]

sorry this made me laugh.. clearly you arent ready to kiss, if one has to say "this is how grownups kiss" your 13 bud. dont worry about you will get better.

[mbishop94479]

I do. Just practice some and you'll get it right.

[Smith98]

A tongue can be used for much more than just kissing...

[mrbigred]

Tounge all the way

[libbie]

that is a pash/french kiss and if she says that your a bad kisser then if she lkes you for who you are she'll get the f over it and accept that you dont 'grown up' kiss
:):):)

[jonjon77777]

Its all about how u feel when r kissing, sometimes when ur really into it u just do what feels right. thats kinda what it sounds she did, although insaulting ur kissing ability then coming full on straight a u my have caught off guard, so dont worry peolpe dont always use tounge its about how u feel in the moment and she sounds like she was really into u. Best of luck.

[Badguyh8er]

Never made out before, so I can't really say. I really want to, though. Major turn-on.