Why cant I get a girlfriend?

[Antares]

I make people laugh. I am popular. Well basically I have great people skills. I do admit that that I am not a jock(eventhough I like and play sports (not on a team) and dont have a jocks body. I have everything I would think girls would want so why wont someone tell me that they like me. Or just a little hint. I am so FUSTRATED. And its gonna suck to not have at least a date for the dance.

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Just find someone you like, and ask them. Maybe the girls who like you are too shy to say anything?

[Mirataku]

Yeah, its better to take a chance, then spent a long time wondering what could have been.

[Ventrue]

Indeed, grab the proverbial bull by the horns (or something to that effect). You will never know unless you try. Maybe it is because everyone views you as a friend. They do not pursue you romanticly because you are everyones buddy. Just an idea, However I whole heartdly agree with Ironic Infidel in England (say it 10 times fast, I dare you) and Mirataku. They give goodly advice.=)

[Antares]

i feel like the girls that i do like are kinda out of my league. eventhough they really arnt i guess

[timisawesome]

if girls arent hinting to you then u should hint to them that u like them

[Sage]

I hope you arent saying that you just want a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. Be patient, and dont ask them out right away, become friends first. No point in having a relationship just for sex, unless you're a foolish, naive, desperate little pretty boy.

[Hyper]

I hope you arent saying that you just want a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. Be patient, and dont ask them out right away, become friends first. No point in having a relationship just for sex, unless you're a foolish, naive, desperate little pretty boy.

Most ppl are like that but yeh

[Antares]

I hope you arent saying that you just want a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. Be patient, and dont ask them out right away, become friends first. No point in having a relationship just for sex, unless you're a foolish, naive, desperate little pretty boy.

I dont want to have sex. I am only 14 and I am not ready for that. I just want to experience what it is like to be in a relationship and basically i think that I am ready to date

[Sage]

Well if you just want to try it out, don't worry about liking the person, just go to math class or whatever as you usually do. They'll notice you standing in that invisible line sooner or later.

[RowanVer.3.0]

It's so funny how that works. If I asked any guy like a year and a half ago "Would you have sex with your girlfriend?" they'd be like: "NO WAY!"

But now, everyone's like "Yeah, I already have..." or "Hell yeah!"

Anyway, maybe girls just aren't attracted to you. It's the sad and sore truth, but people in general are shallow.

I'm not perfect either, I'm shallow to a point. In the sense that, I want a mix of body and mind, not too much of either. There's girls that have the perfect appearance that I just wouldn't touch 'cause of their personality, and of course vice versa.

[Glasgow]

If u wanna experience it go out with anyone you want then. But for me thats pointless, i think you should actually like the person and want to have a relationship with them, not to just try it out.

And this is off topic, but i agree with Rowan. Everyone is shallow, everyone wants to have a good looking girlfriend, even if they say it doesnt matter. And maybe you just arent attractive to the girls you like, this is usually the case if they dont talk to you or like cling to you or something. You cant get every girl to like you

[The Resurrected One]

I have the same problem. Why can't I have a girlfriend? I'll promise to actually treat that girl well and with real love, and I'll promise her that I will never hurt her, and I will stay true to that.

Peace out. :D

[Antares]

maybe its because they think i am gay. i have a kinda high voice and i get along with girls better than girls...

[Emryl]

Some girls don't LIKE popular guys so try toning your awesomness down a bit. (XD) Make the first move with a girl you seem to like.

[whiterecyclables94]

dude its prolly not cuz they think ur gay i have a high voice and ive had 4 girlfriends (im not saying im an expert) first of all u need to act yourself and if u like a girl then have fun with it you can talk to her all night get to know her and flirt with her if she doesn't like you she doesn't like you there are other fish in the sea! Also the way i find easiest to meet a girl is through your friends you go to a party and meet their friends then they invite you to their party and eventually u meet a girl who likes you and you like also if your afraid of being rejected then ask one of your buddies to ask her if she likes you

[Serenity]

*old thread* :headbonk:

[Archduke Robert of France]

Maybe you should develop your personailty (not saying that you don't have one). Show people that you are quirky or whatever of your traits you like best.

[marine_sniperman35]

it takes time...

[Crazysam]

just try asking someone out and dont beat yourself up about it its perfectly normal.

[dushanbe4]

Just try asking a girl.

[Rickyopah]

Try getting to know a particular girl really well. Most of the time you'll find out a lot more about her, and you'll know if she's you're type. Also, it's easier to ask out someone you know really well, you should be able to ask the question in a way you know she'll like. This all worked for me! ;)

[billy]

ok dude im going to give you my secret but share this with no one ive dated like a dozen girls and some in the same time and when i find a girl i like i start whatching her and seeing wat she likes what kind of jewerly and perfume etc. so i give her a nice bottle of perfume and in a week or so i giv her another gift its a neckles and then another gift maybe this time a nice ring w.e but not a fake one she will know i dont know how they know i tried it once and this girl calld me a cheap pervert anyways u get her a real one and after a few gifts she realize you like her without u having to say it in words and she will ask you "do you like me or something" and you just shake your head or say yes w.e and then even if she didnt like you before you gave her all those gifts she will like you now after you gave her gifts and then you guys can go out The End ~true story~

[billy]

and please dont anyone call this bribing or call me a pervert or stalker this just bezenus no personol

you wanna get laid dont you?

[Serenity]

Billy. This is NOT some special secret. First of all, you've been posting it all over the place all day long. And secondly you're wrong. There is no such thing as a good relationship where all you're contributing is material things. If you want a good relationship, TALK to her, be FRIENDS with her, GET TO KNOW her. Don't just start buying expensive jewelry and things in the HOPES that she'll start to like you- because more likely than not she WON'T start to like you, she'll start dating you knowing you'll just buy her whatever she wants!

And this thread is NOT about getting laid- it's about finding a girl who likes you for YOU and having a healthy, wholesome relationship with them. You obviously know NOTHING about this topic so I suggest you stop posting about it!

[Hyper]

Heres some good advice..

Just tell them what you really feel..

And if youre too scared to you have no guts and/or you don't like her that much

[tripletsrule]

if you like someone then try asking her to a dance if things go well there ask her out.

[Sugaree]

Well I guess Fallstel is right. Now I'm not saying you are just in it to just have gf. But still just ask someone. I'm sure you'll get out of it sooner or later ok. My dad says that there are always 2 answears. Yes or No.

[pretty_in_pink]

Let them know that ur avalible.